[Serious] Is it just sexual needs or does it go further than that?

Eskimocel

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Is it just sexual needs for you? Is just the concept of you NOT having intercourse with the other gender which makes you drive insane? Or is it the concept that love and loyalty doesnt exist in this day and age that is driving you insane?

It is hard to elucidate the concept of feeling love and affection which one seeks hence why most people cope with the concept that 1 sexual intercourse would free them from years of suffering on end.

I never understood what some people truly seek. Some people feel very obfuscated when it comes to love or just seeking casual sex like chad.

So are you seeking just casual pump and dump? Is it just the feeling of getting revenge.. or is it the concept of finding someone that truly cares about you for who you are?
 
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Is it just sexual needs for you? Is just the concept of you NOT having intercourse with the other gender which makes you drive insane? Or is it the concept that love and loyalty doesnt exist in this day and age that is driving you insane?

It is hard to elucidate the concept of feeling love and affection which one seeks hence why most people cope with the concept that 1 sexual intercourse would free them from years of suffering on end.

I never understood what some people truly seek. Some people feel very obfuscated when it comes to love or just seeking casual sex like chad.

So are you seeking just casual pump and dump? Is it just the feeling of getting revenge.. or is it the concept of finding someone that truly cares about you for who you are?
I would say both
 
Eskimocel

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I would say both
You strive to satisfy both?

Wouldnt there be any concept of loyalty if you are constantly jumping from foid to foid?
 
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It's a bit of both for me. I'd like to experience having sex, and I'd like to experience being in a romantic relationship. I think it's only natural to be curious about something you've never experienced.

Of course having sex is important. It's our most fundamental, natural biological desire. But on top of that, having sex with someone who cares about you and is open enough to let you be so intimate with them, as opposed to escortmaxxing and knowing that she's only putting up with you because you've paid her. It's a completely alien concept to me, hence the curiosity.
 
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You strive to satisfy both?

Wouldnt there be any concept of loyalty if you are constantly jumping from foid to foid?
I would be ok with both Things, either casual sex or a relationship

but neither of These Things will ever work for me
 
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It's a bit of both for me. I'd like to experience having sex, and I'd like to experience being in a romantic relationship. I think it's only natural to be curious about something you've never experienced.

Of course having sex is important. It's our most fundamental, natural biological desire. But on top of that, having sex with someone who cares about you and is open enough to let you be so intimate with them, as opposed to escortmaxxing and knowing that she's only putting up with you because you've paid her. It's a completely alien concept to me, hence the curiosity.
This where people get confused. You cannot satisfy both of them to their fullest extent.

The concept of "pumping and dumping" comes with the fact that you fly from foid to foid. There is no concept of loyalty in that aspect.
Loyalty is where you only have intercourse with a SELECT person for the rest of your life.

This is the issue, if you see what I mean.
 
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I crave emotional intimacy (aka love), something like this only a foid can provide but I'm too blackpilled at this point to believe this exists (at least not on a shallow level). Even if I suddenly turned into a chad and made someone fall in love with me then this "love" would only be based on my looks, which is a shallow basis, so the only thing that makes sense to me now is just pump and dump
 
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Its affection that is the hardest to cope without. Having that feeling of someone else genuinely care about you. Anyone can just hire a hooker or throw money at a foid, but to get genuine affection... you need more than that.
 
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I want one female to honestly desire me and want me to fuck her like an animal. My only request is that she be under 300 lbs.

If that miracle ever happened, I hope my obsession with females would subside.

Fortunately, all dreams of relationships have faded for me, as I don't see myself ever trusting a female or society.
 
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Alot of normies get their sexual needs, but not their emotional needs met. For example, they may bang occasionally, but he has to deal with all the drama and bs of his woman.
 
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This where people get confused. You cannot satisfy both of them to their fullest extent.

The concept of "pumping and dumping" comes with the fact that you fly from foid to foid. There is no concept of loyalty in that aspect.
Loyalty is where you only have intercourse with a SELECT person for the rest of your life.

This is the issue, if you see what I mean.
Agreed.

In a serious relationship, you agree to only have sex with one girl. But the reality is, we're naturally hardwired to find a large number of girls physically attractive, not just one, and agreeing to a serious relationship doesn't change this fundamental biological instinct. You just suppress the urge to act on it. But if the physical attraction towards the other person in the relationship starts to wane (e.g. if she puts on weight after having a couple of kids), you're effectively trapped and can't fully satisfy your sexual desires as you would with a younger, slimmer girl.

In my case, I'm realistic enough to know that, if by some absolute miracle I found a girl who was willing to try a relationship with me, I wouldn't be able to keep it going. I'm too introverted and concerned with my own time and space to make it work long-term. So, if we dated for a couple of months, then sure, I wouldn't cold approach other girls during those months, for example - that's where the loyalty comes in. But I would know it wouldn't be likely to last anyway, so I'd still be trying to fulfil my sexual desires, firstly with her during the relationship, then with other girls after the inevitable breakup.

This part is completely hypothetical in any case as the chances of me finding any girl willing to try a relationship with me are non-existent.
 
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According to Youtube sensation Alpha Male Strategies, who I do admire even though he's a hardcore redpiller, claims that a women's purpose to a man is merely sexual need fulfillment, and that deeper gratification can only be derived from other accomplishments like work and education. Makes sense.
 
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Agreed.

In a serious relationship, you agree to only have sex with one girl. But the reality is, we're naturally hardwired to find a large number of girls physically attractive, not just one, and agreeing to a serious relationship doesn't change this fundamental biological instinct. You just suppress the urge to act on it. But if the physical attraction towards the other person in the relationship starts to wane (e.g. if she puts on weight after having a couple of kids), you're effectively trapped and can't fully satisfy your sexual desires as you would with a younger, slimmer girl.

In my case, I'm realistic enough to know that, if by some absolute miracle I found a girl who was willing to try a relationship with me, I wouldn't be able to keep it going. I'm too introverted and concerned with my own time and space to make it work long-term. So, if we dated for a couple of months, then sure, I wouldn't cold approach other girls during those months, for example - that's where the loyalty comes in. But I would know it wouldn't be likely to last anyway, so I'd still be trying to fulfil my sexual desires, firstly with her during the relationship, then with other girls after the inevitable breakup.

This part is completely hypothetical in any case as the chances of me finding any girl willing to try a relationship with me are non-existent.
And thats the issue.

I find the concept of loyalty such a thing that one can truly dream of. But for me personally I cannot do the same thing over and over(in that aspect).

I need to rethink what I truly want out of that. But sadly enough, both of these things are mere imaginations... as per usual.
 
Michael15651

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It's a mix of both.
 
The End

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All I give a fuck about is sex.

Lots of it, everyday, with different cute girls. Even that won't assuage my resentment though.
 
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I don't know. I wish I was a chad and have females look at me with adore. sex is a thing too but not this alone.
 
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I just want to be treated like a human being by females and have someone who cares about me. There's no gain in just having sex if there is no validation.
 
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Most of my desires don't make sense.

I don't even care that much about sex anymore tbh, if I start getting horny I just fap and the feeling vanishes. What I want is a girlfriend, someone who will spend time with me, cuddle with me, and who will tell me that I matter. While I know I'll get flak for admitting this, I want to be able to hold her and feel like everything is going to be alright. But really I would be happy with my looksmatch who was simply loyal to me, the other shit would just be a fantasy bonus.

I don't want casual sex though, as I have issues with being touched by people who I don't know very well.
 
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