It's normal and reasonable to have needs.

[NorthernWind]

That kind of demonically cruel creature you need to be for shaming others for having needs?

If you're a female and shame men for being 'needy' then you deserve to experience the same.
For example, you're looking for a job and director says 'no' and shames you for being 'needy'.
Also don't expect others helping you or even interacting with you because your 'neediness' is unattractive.

 

[Nightwalker_98]

" how dare you question me inkwell, i am protected by special privilege act for wimen , under which i am always treated as the victim because i have a vagina " -