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It's Over Life ends after school/university and you will have no attention whatsoever

AsiaCel

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When you graduate from college or highschool, you receive no attention at all, not from 'bullying'; not from people interested to be your friend, not from people who became somewhat friendly with you because they built bonds sitting with you in class over the course for few years, not from people who have same interests as you

No one will message you on Instagram or Whatsapp or Facebook. The most they do is to give some likes. Only the ones that will reply to your story reels are fellow incel bros on IG.

You will give normies attention, you will reply to their posts, you will make talks with them, only to see that it is very one sided.

"Extroverts" as you see them, will become the biggest, "hikkiomori" introverts when you talk to them. (But only applies when talking to you).

I've concluded that the best bonds are built over people forced to do something together of a common goal without much conflict of interest i.e. schooling/religious goals/whatever political goals your country have, and this is depressingly lacking in 21st century low trust societies. But good luck forming bonds when everyone needs to work/have kids/whatever BS they have. And no, a workplace won't work, because it's a office politics situation where everyone backstabs each other. (leftards call this social alienation, but I wont get into it too much here)

I've said that many times to many people, that we need a religious revival or some sort of political movement like the red guards/hitler youth.

Maybe not for religious reason (though it's a good help to build a community) or political reasons, but to give people something that they can work towards. In China, there was the mentality to "surpass USA/Britain" and "build 2 bombs and one satellite"; Today, without these goals, all attention is directed towards individualist, shallow entertainment of kpop-like activities. If common-goals were surrogate activities (Uncle Ted moment), then these individualistic 'goals' are double surrogate activities.

It's also why I've turned to the biggest edgelord since I became 22 (I'm 24 now), any attention is better than nothing, even if it came from normies seetheing over my Nazi pfps or my rants.
 
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I've gotta thank @IncelsNeverCry for making one of the truest posts in the site I've read, which this thread is inspired from
 
Being invisible my whole life
 
Being invisible my whole life
I was never invisiible much back then. Not the popular kid by any means, but at least people mentioned me and I recalled one foid said I was lazy as a pig....not all attention were good, but they were a stepping stone to something else.

Now, all that is gone, like an astronaut who has lost his bearing and tossed into the endless spaces floating for decades.
 
Youngcels, take notes. In my experience, you will at some point be suddenly deprived of all attention. It may happen after school or after college, but it will happen.

People only think about themselves and only think about you in terms of how you could “fit into their life”.

It’s brutally hard, but it need not be the end of the world. Live your life for yourself, accept the fact that you are invisible as soon as possible and live life for yourself. Have fun, do what you like.
 
Youngcels, take notes. In my experience, you will at some point be suddenly deprived of all attention. It may happen after school or after college, but it will happen.

People only think about themselves and only think about you in terms of how you could “fit into their life”.

It’s brutally hard, but it need not be the end of the world. Live your life for yourself, accept the fact that you are invisible as soon as possible and live life for yourself. Have fun, do what you like.
I've said that many times to many people, that we need a religious revival or some sort of political movement like the red guards/hitler youth.

Maybe not for religious reason (though it's a good help to build a community) or political reasons, but to give people something that they can work towards. In China, there was the mentality to "surpass USA/Britain" and "build 2 bombs and one satellite"; Today, without these goals, all attention is directed towards individualist, shallow entertainment of kpop-like activities. If common-goals were surrogate activities (Uncle Ted moment), then these individualistic 'goals' are double surrogate activities.
 
Youngcels, take notes. In my experience, you will at some point be suddenly deprived of all attention. It may happen after school or after college, but it will happen.

People only think about themselves and only think about you in terms of how you could “fit into their life”.

It’s brutally hard, but it need not be the end of the world. Live your life for yourself, accept the fact that you are invisible as soon as possible and live life for yourself. Have fun, do what you like.
I’m 18 and it already has
 
For me its either no attention or negative attention, always has been
 
it never began for real incels
 
Idk bruh my life is just as attentionless and empty as it was 5 years ago when i started college and became incel-aware.
it never began for real incels
 
My life has been a void for the longest time.
Even now, studymaxxing, I am completely alone.
I remember going on a school field trip at 15 and leaving the group for two hours, just walking around by myself in a dark city I knew nothing about. I was already chronically depressed. Nobody even noticed I left.
8 years later it's much the same. My neuroatypicality and my looks make the world poison for me.
 
Relatable, I dropped out after 14 something and went to trade school.
Oh you dropped out damn I didn’t know. You went to trade school and then when did u get ur stem degree?
 
Nothing ever started anyway.
 
Oh you dropped out damn I didn’t know. You went to trade school and then when did u get ur stem degree?
Long story short I graduated from uni. Anyway, the jump from hs/secondary school to college is bad because its profession based. Which means whatever degree you chosen, your classmates will be the same ones studying it.
 
Indeed and it has been mentally taxing for me, I'm only 21 but I feel like I am 40 somehow due to the extreme amount of social isolation. Totally disconnected with the reality most people live in, since I have no life outside of studymaxxing and vydia, 0 friends irl and even less prospects for the future. Idc at this point, if I'm not allowed to have a stable family or a social circle at least, then I'm just going to put in the bare minimum effort for this scum society.
 
Indeed and it has been mentally taxing for me, I'm only 21 but I feel like I am 40 somehow due to the extreme amount of social isolation. Totally disconnected with the reality most people live in, since I have no life outside of studymaxxing and vydia, 0 friends irl and even less prospects for the future. Idc at this point, if I'm not allowed to have a stable family or a social circle at least, then I'm just going to put in the bare minimum effort for this scum society.
you can be my friend i have no friends and never had a grilfriend and everyone in my community ostracises me when i try talking to somone they look alway in disgust i live in social isolation sometimes i feel like im not even a part of the human species especially my family they are never supportive of my ambitions and severely negelect me i was always a loner all i ever wanted was love and a sense of belonging and yet everyone see me as a monster sometimes i want to beat them with my base ball bat sometimes to take my anger i built for years.
 
you can be my friend i have no friends and never had a grilfriend and everyone in my community ostracises me when i try talking to somone they look alway in disgust i live in social isolation sometimes i feel like im not even a part of the human species especially my family they are never supportive of my ambitions and severely negelect me i was always a loner all i ever wanted was love and a sense of belonging and yet everyone see me as a monster sometimes i want to beat them with my base ball bat sometimes to take my anger i built for years.
sure just send in a dm if you want to talk
 
I didn't get attention in highschool or college
 
why not you get bullied something.
The fact that I'm non NT and constantly getting mogged only people I could relate to were the other future incels in the making. And I dropped out of college after 1 semester no attention at all.
 
I realized this back when I was in school. Brutal.
 
The fact that I'm non NT and constantly getting mogged only people I could relate to were the other future incels in the making. And I dropped out of college after 1 semester no attention at all.
thats the problem society refuse to accept us we keep our anger and frustrations in who knows how long we could hold it.
 
Brutal, but true. The time since finishing school has been extremely isolating for me, especially considering I don't work.
 
Brutal, but true. The time since finishing school has been extremely isolating for me, especially considering I don't work.
Work will make you more socially isolated if you're prone to so; since most work relationships are fake and have conflict of interest.
 
This is facts. After highschool/college, you just work and slave for society. Have a fun time meeting new people. Even normies complain they cant make any new friends in mid 20's to 30's
 
My life has been a void for the longest time.
Even now, studymaxxing, I am completely alone.
I remember going on a school field trip at 15 and leaving the group for two hours, just walking around by myself in a dark city I knew nothing about. I was already chronically depressed. Nobody even noticed I left.
8 years later it's much the same. My neuroatypicality and my looks make the world poison for me.
 
When you graduate from college or highschool, you receive no attention at all, not from 'bullying'; not from people interested to be your friend, not from people who became somewhat friendly with you because they built bonds sitting with you in class over the course for few years, not from people who have same interests as you

No one will message you on Instagram or Whatsapp or Facebook. The most they do is to give some likes. Only the ones that will reply to your story reels are fellow incel bros on IG.

You will give normies attention, you will reply to their posts, you will make talks with them, only to see that it is very one sided.

"Extroverts" as you see them, will become the biggest, "hikkiomori" introverts when you talk to them. (But only applies when talking to you).

I've concluded that the best bonds are built over people forced to do something together of a common goal without much conflict of interest i.e. schooling/religious goals/whatever political goals your country have, and this is depressingly lacking in 21st century low trust societies. But good luck forming bonds when everyone needs to work/have kids/whatever BS they have. And no, a workplace won't work, because it's a office politics situation where everyone backstabs each other. (leftards call this social alienation, but I wont get into it too much here)



It's also why I've turned to the biggest edgelord since I became 22 (I'm 24 now), any attention is better than nothing, even if it came from normies seetheing over my Nazi pfps or my rants.
Lol I received no attention at all throughout school despite me constantly trying, it was already over
 
For me its either no attention or negative attention, always has been
yeah i learned in high school that drawing attention to myself just results in bullying or being made fun of (i tried to jestermaxx). In college i just hid in my room.
 
yeah i learned in high school that drawing attention to myself just results in bullying or being made fun of (i tried to jestermaxx). In college i just hid in my room.
At least you had attention
 
Every year after your 18th year of life gets more and more intolerable
 
That's totally true. After some years of finishing my college's adventure I'm even more invisible than ever. Hard to cope tbh
 
When you graduate from college or highschool, you receive no attention at all, not from 'bullying'; not from people interested to be your friend, not from people who became somewhat friendly with you because they built bonds sitting with you in class over the course for few years, not from people who have same interests as you

No one will message you on Instagram or Whatsapp or Facebook. The most they do is to give some likes. Only the ones that will reply to your story reels are fellow incel bros on IG.

You will give normies attention, you will reply to their posts, you will make talks with them, only to see that it is very one sided.

"Extroverts" as you see them, will become the biggest, "hikkiomori" introverts when you talk to them. (But only applies when talking to you).

I've concluded that the best bonds are built over people forced to do something together of a common goal without much conflict of interest i.e. schooling/religious goals/whatever political goals your country have, and this is depressingly lacking in 21st century low trust societies. But good luck forming bonds when everyone needs to work/have kids/whatever BS they have. And no, a workplace won't work, because it's a office politics situation where everyone backstabs each other. (leftards call this social alienation, but I wont get into it too much here)



It's also why I've turned to the biggest edgelord since I became 22 (I'm 24 now), any attention is better than nothing, even if it came from normies seetheing over my Nazi pfps or my rants.
100%
I hated high school when I was in it. Couldn't wait to go out. Now that I am in College I kinda feel nostalgic about it. I met the first people I would call friends there after all. Everyone's High School experience shapes them in a very deep way.
 
100%
I hated high school when I was in it. Couldn't wait to go out. Now that I am in College I kinda feel nostalgic about it. I met the first people I would call friends there after all. Everyone's High School experience shapes them in a very deep way.
Same bro I dream about hs everyday
 
Life ends after high school
 

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