There was a great livestream on YouTube maybe a year or two ago on "MGTOW chats" between Incelmatics and FACEandLMS and Sandman, Lamprey and Ayam. It was a great meeting of minds. Sandman made the point that the difference between MGTOW and Incel is probably generational. The difference between men sent their own way and those going their own way. I'm one of the older guys here from the older Millennial cohort - Inceldom is a normal state of being for many zoomers whether they put that label on it or not meanwhile I was a freak and loser for not being able to get a woman and there really is no excuse for it. Maybe if I had just been a bit luckier and a bit better back in 2000-2005 I could have gotten a girlfriend.
Certainly with age I don't necessarily identify as Incel anymore but more of a volcel just because age and hormones have killed my sex drive and I have just developed total contempt for women.
Many of the MGTOW guys are older, have no sex drive and have been so damaged by women I can see them never wanting to be around one ever again. There are a cohort of guys "coping" hard in that community as well some of who are men sent their own way on the younger side who found their way to that community.
There is no need for Incel and MGTOW to fight. I think the MGTOW's are bit more positive in their life outlooks than we are. This place really is a shit show.