This is obviously a complicated topic. You basically said it all yourself: if the kid is a boycel, then it's basically over for him as well. With the accelerating hypergamy levels, who knows, his life might be even more torturous than mine currently. But as I like this idea more, I will try to defend this position. But I will start talking about foidcel first.
Option 1. Raising a foidcel... (Difficulty: medium).
After the black loading screen, you appear the be in the hospital when your wife (jfl) giving birth to your child. And the doctor congratulates you on having a daughter. Mixed feelings. Never ever in my life I've heard a man wanting a foid kidcel. But it happened.
What are the tasks to be a successful foidcel father? Roughly speaking, raising a foidcel never involved much trouble (at least early on) and this tendency can be followed throughout the history.
In the early stage, there are less troubles, all you gotta do is to ensure no one kidnaps her, and that she is not growing absolutely independent. She should be at home most of the time, and help her mother with small chores. This is what I see with some based relatives raising foidlet child.
Now, the main issues start when she is, idk, 12? There is no debate that she will be exposed to young Chads. Obviously, she is going to school, some after class sections, maybe music school. This is the main problem. With the accelerating hypergamy, you must make sure she is not growing as a turboslut. No boycels, no going far with her foid classmate, no school dances, least possible amount of interaction with her slutty classmate foids (who will supposedly lose their virginity at that point), and on top of that no interactions with teen Chads. I might let her play with the most trucel boycel from the playground or school, just for the sake of mental development of another incel and as a part of based upbringing. The only possible way to somehow make the situation better, is to ensure foidcels respect trucel kids, even if it means punishing my daughter really bad. Just like she knows touching hot kettle is not a good experience, the same should be with disrespecting other kidcels.
I will talk to the teacher, so that they won't let her sit with some boy in the class, except for trucels. Things will get at peak difficulty in HS. Although very rare nowadays, if your daughter is virgin when she graduates, you're basically a based hero. No parties like I said, no girlfriends, no social medias, no tinder. She can socialize with her relative foidcels if she wants do. My main worry is to lessen amount of chad exposure. Go out of home to school -> come back home and do your homework. I'm not sure in all honesty, if this is enough, but basically you need to dictator ethnic father maxx. When the time will come I will do my best to make her marry some basedcel from our own ethnicity.
Option 2. Raising a boycel (difficulty: you both must die)
I always wanted to have a son. I believe most men do. Why, I can't and don't want to elab, honestly, all in all, it's just less cucked. A son is always considered an heir and a successor to the bloodline, and while your daughter is also continuing your bloodline, it basically means for her to get railed by some other man.
A small lyrical digression. I used to fantasize about my future family a lot when I was bluepilled. Most of fantasies about a son involved raising him into a based person to change the world, while most foidcel kid fantasies were revolving about not letting her to be a turboslut.
Raising a son is much more difficult. While in the past, even if your son were incel tier, he could atleast jihad and shaheedmaxx, so there was atleast some goal in life. Nowadays, not exactly being incel tier but not being chad tier involves many complications.
Your main goal is to ensure your soncel won't become incel. Some of you micht ask, "How can you do that? Being incel is determined by your genes, not by your actions!"
And that's true. But nevertheless, there are a lot of things you might do, to atleast help your soncel geneticpotentialmaxx with what he has.
Step 1. You should ensure birth without complications. Idk how, you must reduce your wife's (jfl) stress during pregnancy. Only healthy diet, no alcohol, no drugs or other bullshit. Not eating something what can result in an allergy. No tough physical activities and etc.
Step 2. When the soncel is born, you must pay close attention to his health, and not just be like, if he breathes - he fine. If there is a lack of some vitamin, you must fix that. If there is something wrong with tests, you need to fix that. If the kid has adenoids and you hear him having troubles nose breathing at night, this issue must be dealt with immediately. There are a lot of subhumanities that can be fixed early on. Full cycle of breastfeeding, not letting the kid sucking on the dummy longer than it is allowed. Maximum attention on teeth development. Maybe mewing can work, so the kidcel must be taught correct tongue posture, oral hygiene. If there is any issue with bite, overcrowding, anything else related, you must do something, as it always results in subhuman faces. Basically, do all the health related work, so that you can move on the next step.
Step 3. Doing sports and keeping fit. You must be an role model for your soncel. Otherwise, he will never respect you, if you sit on the couch all day with a beer, switching TV channels. You're fat and bald, you smell like and alcoholic from the junkyard and you never do physical activity. If you're such a mess, you can never demand a kid, especially a boycel to do sports and go out, not sit on the computer for too long.
Being active, take your soncel outside in the evening. Kick the ball around. Teach him to push up and pull up maxx. If you want him to exercise, do it all together. Make a solid base, so that you can move on. Let him go on soccer club or etc.
When the kidcel is 14 yo, start doing more targeted sports together. Run together, go to the gym, don't kick the ball around but play football, teach the kidcel, but not just demand. Participate. Want the kidcel to run 5km? Run together. Want him to do 500 pushups? Do it yourself first. If your genetics are not gigatrucel tier, and with physical activity your son will be able to be fit teen. Not chad tier teen, but just not fat, lean, then I believe he can pretty much ascend just because not fat at 14 yo, when Chads don't jaw and heightmog so bad.
Step 4. Education and motivation. You must do everything, so that your kidcel will grow based and able to moneymaxx. Read books together, discuss topics and questions, study. Apart from doing sports, he should have good grades, but even if there are issues, good understanding > good grades. Make sure, the boycel will grow not as oblivious to problems, but as a person who might do something with them. You don't want to raise another slave of the system. And the best way for this is... to bluepill him in certain aspects. Don't get me wrong on this one. Aforementioned steps are pursuing only one goal, making your son able to ascend naturally and at the right time. You're basically maxxing him as much as possible in all aspects. If he is able to ascend and have gf for example, then half of the work is done. But you must bluepill him in some other aspects.
Why? Other people, and even Chads. As soon as they ascend. Chads just keep pump and dump game, while normies either fail or stay normie. How many of them contribute to issues we need to solve?
Ascension is not the finish of all the effort I'd want to put as a parent. Ascension is required just for the stable mental basis and development of a boycel. By not letting the kid have mental issues, it will help him to concentrate on becoming a better person, moneymaxxing and creating something new. A foid kidcel will never do, but a boycel can do something, can build something from nothing. That's why you should put this effort.
As we are talking about imaginary scenario of ascending and having kids, might as well think of imaginary possibility of your kid being the one to end inceldom. You're not making a baby for him to just exist. But jfl, nobody gonna read this