The absolute core of the blackpill is the realization that when you peruse any female, you are in constant competition with every other man available to her. Normies act like when a foid is with one man she isn't comparing him to anyone else, as if their relationship exists in a semi-isolated social world of it's own. This is not the case. There is a very good reason why men are obsessed with knowing averages; when we are with a female we know that if the majority of her past partners had larger dicks, better looks, stronger frames and sharper minds than us then we look considerably worse in comparison. Being below average is being constantly portrayed negatively by her mind's natural process of judgement.
Normie logic for dating generally revolves around the idea of social circles and luck. Their logic is that people meet by chance in social circles, and once they start to get along well a relationship can develop naturally since the female is now focused on that specific man. What normies fail to realize is that this only works for them because they are at the very least equal to the other potential options that the female has. If one of us find a female in a social circle and gets along well with them on a personality level, we will still be unable to progress the relationship due to be obviously worse than all of her other options.
Normie logic for dating generally revolves around the idea of social circles and luck. Their logic is that people meet by chance in social circles, and once they start to get along well a relationship can develop naturally since the female is now focused on that specific man. What normies fail to realize is that this only works for them because they are at the very least equal to the other potential options that the female has. If one of us find a female in a social circle and gets along well with them on a personality level, we will still be unable to progress the relationship due to be obviously worse than all of her other options.
