Some of you seem very young to be deciding it's over and writing yourselves off!
I don't remember any one EUREKA moment when I suddenly and totally realized it wan't going to happen for me.
I remember being 15-16 at high school and realizing some of the cool kids were talking about having GFs and having sex with them. the FOMO started then, but I coped with the idea that it seemed to be just a few guys, and things would surely happen for me too sooner or later.
I remember being 17-18 and watching some of my old high school buddies hook up, and the FOMO got a bit stronger.
I remember being a university student at ages 18-21 was a brutal time, when I was fully and relentlessly confronted by the reality that everybody else was smarter than me, more beautiful than me, more capable than me, and had vastly greater SMV than me.
I remember being a young urban professional at ages 24-30 was when the FOMO peaked and I hit rock bottom.
Being a 30+ oldcel with a career and property, I started to make peace with the fact that having a partner, family of my own, and that whole life wasn't going to happen and it was too late to start even if I met somebody tomorrow. Started developing whitepill tendencies.