BlkPillPres
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There's a specific memory I sometimes think of that makes be cringe so hard
I was working at this place and I was talking with this female co-worker about why men shouldn't have to buy any of women's hygiene products for them, and then she asked me a question that was basically - "How often do you want to have sex" with your girlfriend, etc, and I responded with some stupid shit that made it seem like I would be having sex everyday or almost everyday
Now me being ignorant of the fact of how physically taxing sex is, and how often normies even have the time to have sex, that sounded like a "good response", but looking back now I realize that my "cover was blown" and she probably asked that question on purpose
This memory makes me cringe, but it also makes me laugh
It was only years later when I worked more jobs, started talking to normies and listening to them talk about their relationships, that I realize that people (with jobs) don't have sex all that often (maybe 2 times a week) and if you are tired you don't really feel like having sex all that much
What a lot of virgin men also don't realize is that sex is a physically taxing act (especially on the part of the man). I was surprised and confused when I got a leg cramp when I finally decided to pay for sex, its really common sense when you think about it, you are more confused about the fact that you didn't realize something that simple and obvious before you did it, but it doesn't really dawn upon you that its like exercise until you do it yourself, because your only frame of reference for sexual pleasure, is you sitting comfortably on a chair stroking your dick and watching a computer screen (effortless pleasure)
To a virgin with no life experience you think that if you get a GF you'll just be having sex all the time, it doesn't work like that (for the average couple), and based on how you talk about sex when you aren't aware of that reality, many normies around you easily gauge that you are virgin, and you don't even realize it because again you are ignorant of the norms of being in a relationship and how sex works
People usually have to "make time for sex", its not always spontaneous, the working life of the average human today is very hectic and usually both partners work, and when you get home from work you are both somewhat tired. On top of that when you have children that adds even more complications
So I got "found out" those years ago and I didn't even know it, so all those looks and stares I was getting afterwards made sense
This is why its important to talk to normies and understand how their lives work (if you want to blend in)
I was working at this place and I was talking with this female co-worker about why men shouldn't have to buy any of women's hygiene products for them, and then she asked me a question that was basically - "How often do you want to have sex" with your girlfriend, etc, and I responded with some stupid shit that made it seem like I would be having sex everyday or almost everyday
Now me being ignorant of the fact of how physically taxing sex is, and how often normies even have the time to have sex, that sounded like a "good response", but looking back now I realize that my "cover was blown" and she probably asked that question on purpose
This memory makes me cringe, but it also makes me laugh
It was only years later when I worked more jobs, started talking to normies and listening to them talk about their relationships, that I realize that people (with jobs) don't have sex all that often (maybe 2 times a week) and if you are tired you don't really feel like having sex all that much
What a lot of virgin men also don't realize is that sex is a physically taxing act (especially on the part of the man). I was surprised and confused when I got a leg cramp when I finally decided to pay for sex, its really common sense when you think about it, you are more confused about the fact that you didn't realize something that simple and obvious before you did it, but it doesn't really dawn upon you that its like exercise until you do it yourself, because your only frame of reference for sexual pleasure, is you sitting comfortably on a chair stroking your dick and watching a computer screen (effortless pleasure)
To a virgin with no life experience you think that if you get a GF you'll just be having sex all the time, it doesn't work like that (for the average couple), and based on how you talk about sex when you aren't aware of that reality, many normies around you easily gauge that you are virgin, and you don't even realize it because again you are ignorant of the norms of being in a relationship and how sex works
People usually have to "make time for sex", its not always spontaneous, the working life of the average human today is very hectic and usually both partners work, and when you get home from work you are both somewhat tired. On top of that when you have children that adds even more complications
So I got "found out" those years ago and I didn't even know it, so all those looks and stares I was getting afterwards made sense
This is why its important to talk to normies and understand how their lives work (if you want to blend in)
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