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why do so many incels focus on LADR instead of trying to self improve
Because they most likely feel as "self improvement" in terms of "personality" or the standard shower advice is useless due to their genetic makeup... 
Which is the basis of the blackpill.
Which is the basis of the blackpill.
- no motivation
- no hopes for better future
- fried brain with no focus
- no hopes for better future
- fried brain with no focus
And also lost of indentity. If you aren't a normie you will never be, in terms of let's say "mindset". Why? You know too much and know more about life and due to mostly shitty treatment received by other people caused you to be antisocial and you simply don't want to be around people or chitchat with them FOR THE REASON.
It's not meme "mentally ill" or autism, it's just those things. I was social as a kid and stopped being as I was growing older due to treatment from others. Now imbecils here will label me aspie or sth.
It's not meme "mentally ill" or autism, it's just those things. I was social as a kid and stopped being as I was growing older due to treatment from others. Now imbecils here will label me aspie or sth.
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Fakecel and now a
I do wonder about that for myself at times. Being put in special ed junior school. Getting bullied in main stream school. Not £****** told what grades I needed to pass exams. Society outside of family simply not caring about me.
I’m trying to bear fruit for the lord
Possible rewards are not worth the effort, end result after improvement is not good enough, negative feedback loop kills your motivation, better life maintain copes than putting effort into things.
nigger tier thread,no self improvement 4 ur face
While Woman can Be Fat and fuck chadlite . And If you where some Chad you wouldnt have to lift 2 Fingers either.
Society is a gaslighting Factory for weak and gullible man .
If Fat Woman can fuck Athletes and certain people Just have to exist ( Woman , chads ) Then you know Something isnt right .
No self improvement for ur face, GrAYnig
cuz self improvement is bullshit. you have to improve just to play catchup to pretend to attain what chads get at birth
because LDARcels are stupid. Unless you're going to rope there's no point in increasing your own suffering. Eating healthy and exercising a bit won't ever help you ascend but it will help your physical/mental health and standard of living.
There's no self improvement for your face. Self improvement is fucking blue/redpiled bs. How will foids still view you as a person even with all of that? There'd still be chances to self-improve (looksmax) but now you're becoming too mentally fucked to do anything because of the time wasted by "self-improving" while being ostracized by women and society. Might as well ldar and cope than suffer more from getting mogged, and seeing couples making you feel dead inside.
It’s tiring improving and making no progress.
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cos theres no point in living if you cant have a basic thing like relationships and sex
LDAR is realizing that sometimes you need your copes and that self-improvement should be done in moderation for it's own benefit with low hopes and expectations of it leading to anyhting
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Because they most likely feel as "self improvement" in terms of "personality" or the standard shower advice is useless due to their genetic makeup...
Which is the basis of the blackpill.
Fakecel and now a
I mean self improve in terms of focusing on the other aspects of life
Exactly, like the logic of self-improvement is really this simple, you don't even have to looksmaxx if you think or know it's over, just focus on your health and well-being. You obviously have something to live for, otherwise you wouldn't be here to begin with. Especially the postmaxxing types here, you'd think after 1000 posts you would've decided if life is worth living or not.
Gargantuan cope.
My take: If you're gonna LDAR might as well just kys already, why prolong your suffering? What's the point in that? You're not even gonna become a martyr because no one will know you even existed locked in your room all those years.
Because they overdosed on the black pill and refuse to get out of that negative mindset.
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No point if you can’t get sex relationships and real friends
For most people self improvement does help. However, many incels have unchangeable physical or mental attributes, such as being short asf or adhd, that severely limit any benefits that self improvement could bring about.
ovER for truecels
ovER for truecels
Because it won’t matter and it’s pointless.
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Being short doesnt stop from like wagemaxxing but like I see i guess
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What’s the end goal of self improvement? Just for self improvement’s sake? Because it’s not helping me get laid or anything. I’m still pissed off that I’m an adult virgin despite improoving in other areas
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You could improve yourself and your career, travel the world, buy any escort you want if you are into that, and have your family look at you as the successful one even if you dont have a girlfriend or wife you could be the cool uncle to all the children.
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Your family and friends will never truly respect you as an incel. They might not say it to your face but they will be thinking how you’re a loser/say it to each other in private conversations how it’s weird you’ve never had a gf, etc. Being sexually successful is everything.
if you're severely below average, no amount of self improvement will even make you average
Most have already tried and are tired of being rejected, if you ever really tried you know how much it sucks to get shot down by a foid. All that mental preparation all for her to confirm you were wrong.
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I mean self improve in terms of focusing on the other aspects of life
because there is no improvement for incels.
literally everything.
life is unfair.
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I've tried self-improvement only to be brutally beaten back down and reminded that no matter how hard I try it's never going to help.
They don't have energy to push forth over all the obstacles. Even to earn a mere 100k, it takes 2000+ hours of work. To hit a good solid 200k salary post taxes, 3000+ hours of work. Add gym maxxing, learn another language, you easily have 5000+ hours of grind to become a cultured middle class man.
Brutal same here. The few times I succeeded, it took dozens of failures to hit a single win. It is very tiring. Every single obstacle you destroy, another dozen appear that must be killed. Very annoying.
Self Improvement is not worth it
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Self improvement is worthless..... it's a worst cope and every cope has an end.
Thats true. Although it is harder for shortcels to wagemaxx, mostly due to lack of self confidence and being seen with less respect. It is proven that on average taller people are more successful. The height pill is too brutal.
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