Discussion Why do we value female validation?

[i_want_emo_gf]

It makes no logical sense for us to want female validation. We know females have no actual emotions except lusting for chad, and their validation is completely meaningless since it’s arbitrarily given based on your genetics and facial features.

not only that, but most foids are narcissistic stuck up cunts who have no empathy, so why do we crave these creatures approval?

and don’t say you don’t, because if you truly didn’t give a fuck about female validation you’d leave this forum and escortmaxx

 

[HighTGymcel]

but most foids are narcissistic stuck up cunts who have no empathy

"All these stuck up blonde sluts"

 

[MaxZM98]

you’re probably being gaslighted by redpillers who tell you “dont seek female validation”, as if that’s all incels do.

incels want to have a loving connection with someone, it isn’t all about feeling ‘validated’ whatever that means

 

[GhostedPhantom]

It's instinctive. Being validated by females means a higher chance to procreate so we're wired to want it.

you’re probably being gaslighted by redpillers who tell you “dont seek female validation”, as if that’s all incels do.

incels want to have a loving connection with someone, it isn’t all about feeling ‘validated’ whatever that means

I think they're right that we seek female validation. That doesn't necessarily mean we want to be put on a pedestal by foids; it just means we want to be reassured that we deserve to have kids, even if only a single foid is validating us.

What redpillers are wrong about is that if we started acting cold, it would magically help us ascend. They're also wrong that they themselves are not seeking female validation despite all of their discussions being centered around getting laid. Also, there's a bit of an implication that it's somehow our fault that we're desperate for validation.

 

[Deleted member 39533]

Because you're biologically programmed to.

 

[BrettyBoy]

Just want a femoid who will let me use her for pleasure and that’s it.

 

[Anonx]

It's more about woman saying all men are the same. Yet they avoid incels because of lookism. But instead date the chad or tyrones and judge all men accordingly. After they been pumped and dumped by chad and tyrone. Incels still get the hate but never get the chance to show them overwise how much better dating an incel would be. I'm more traditionalist. I want to build a connection with someone. Sure theres plenty of things to do that doesnt involve bringing a kid into the world. Heck just being able to smack a womans ass and grab it while dating her. Even just cuddling on the couch together. These days its like being a dead beat looser chad or tyrone with no job and alot of babby mamas is the thing women are after. It's not the guy thats working hard in school for a career and a future. Someone that can keep a job and let his wife stay home with the kids if she wants to or work to. The same women that complain are ignoring all the guys that are suitable for them by placing them in the" friend zone". To many get stuck in the HoE phase. Just look at tiktok.

 

[Urekkim]

I dont find it that odd. its like wanting Female Affection. Nothing more to it.

 

[Mindcel]

Who do you refer to by "we"? Incels aren't even in their consideration for you to feel you have the need to be validated. But if you have a wide imagination and refer to yourself as an ordinary male that has equal chances of being validated by foids, then find the nearest local mental hospital and go spend the rest of your life there fingering your asshole.

 

[Tesla]

Because validation, as many emotions, is not gender oriented. You want to be validated by people because you want to show them what you got and make them like it. That's a bog standard behavior to any human being, you can't teach knowledge without showing.

Your focus on girls is likely because you can't avoid it, they are half of the population, and your natural drive to them as a heterosexual (which doesn't drive the validation itself) also contributes to it.

 

[SchrodingersDick]

Because it feels like heroin. Why do we want/value xyz? Because it feels good.

probabaly has something to do with your chimp brain registering female validation as “sex imminent, propagation successful”

 

[JoeBruhcel]

[Hard To Swallow Edition] This Gynocentric Soyciety Has Made YOU a SLAVE To "FEMALE VALIDATION"

TLDR is in the title for brain fried non-existent attention spancels. This GYNOCETRIC soyciety has made you a SLAVE to FEMALE VALIDATION and doing whatever you can to please the GODDESSES. In today's age the most popular religion and god in the world isn't Islam/Allah, it's not...

incels.is

 

[curryboy420]

Forget women, even men don't give the validation to us they give to their real friends. We are on our own and want to be part of something. Simply being part of a community increases your chances out of inceldom
Also leads to money opportunities which I really need

 

[_realist_]

Because people want to have purpose and feel something.

 

[Iamnothere000]

Sry, but that’s kind of a stupid question. Every living being wants to reproduce. Those who don’t want to will quickly be bred out. And female validation is kind of necessary to reproduce. (Unless you are a turbo-rapist, which is another valid strategy).

It's instinctive. Being validated by females means a higher chance to procreate so we're wired to want it.

Because you're biologically programmed to.

Because people want to have purpose and feel something.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Shannon Rose Bosanac was constantly given validation in group therapy. A boy named "George" would dote on her and constantly give her compliments. Another boy, named "Joe", would teach her about fishing. "Chris" and "Marcus" would call her "Sweetie" and flirt with her via text(Rule violation).

 

[nice_try]

I don't value female validation.

 

[fast_curry]

you’re probably being gaslighted by redpillers who tell you “dont seek female validation”, as if that’s all incels do.

incels want to have a loving connection with someone, it isn’t all about feeling ‘validated’ whatever that means

It makes sense OP thinks that way. .is is filled with redpillers and those who seek female validation are constantly made fun of.

 

[Saint Cho]

B I O L O G Y

 

[imanuglysob]

it's natural i suppose. female validations means you aren't a failure as a man.

 

[InMyCellInHell]

you’re probably being gaslighted by redpillers who tell you “dont seek female validation”, as if that’s all incels do.

incels want to have a loving connection with someone, it isn’t all about feeling ‘validated’ whatever that means

 

[caninemane60]

because we want women

 

[Deleted member 39755]

@i_want_emo_gf people here like you are egoists who are obsessed with validation, they would rather become good looking but have no sex than be ugly and rich and have lots of sex

@BlkPillPres @IncelKing @JoeBruhcel have great threads about the "muh validation" argument

 

[JoeBruhcel]

@i_want_emo_gf people here like you are egoists who are obsessed with validation, they would rather become good looking but have no sex than be ugly and rich and have lots of sex

They refuse to admit that they've been SOCIALLY enslaved and brainwashed to be a slave to "muh female validation" so they cope by saying "it's biological" which is complete bullshit.

@JoeBruhcel have great threads about the "muh validation" argument

 

[Deleted member 39755]

They refuse to admit that they've been SOCIALLY enslaved and brainwashed to be a slave to "muh female validation" so they cope by saying "it's biological" which is complete bullshit.

If it was biological then men wouldn't have became turbo simps in the past 20 years, there was a difference in men 40 years ago, 80 years ago, 120 years ago and so on, back then no one gave a fuck about female validation because it's not biological

 

[JoeBruhcel]

If it was biological then men wouldn't have became turbo simps in the past 20 years, there was a difference in men 40 years ago, 80 years ago, 120 years ago and so on, back then no one gave a fuck about female validation because it's not biological

I agree, you'd have an easier job convincing a literal wall of that than to convince the slaves of female validation in this forum

 

[Deleted member 39755]

I agree, you'd have an easier job convincing a literal wall of that than to convince the slaves of female validation in this forum

They have a feminine mindset, men care more about sex than validation, foids care more about validation than sex, which is why they always rack up high amount of instagram followers and post slutty pics for likes / comments

 

[JoeBruhcel]

They have a feminine mindset, men care more about sex than validation, foids care more about validation than sex, which is why they always rack up high amount of instagram followers and post slutty pics for likes / comments

Exactly, it's a GYNOCENTRIC point of view.

 

[Mecoja]

Im not anymore, since i figured women and many men only see and appreciate you as a tool, once you dont work properly they will cut you out and discard you, its not worth anything.

 

[BlkPillPres]

so why do we crave these creatures approval?

WE don't, YOU do, stop projecting.

and don’t say you don’t, because if you truly didn’t give a fuck about female validation you’d leave this forum and escortmaxx

That costs money which doesn't come out of nowhere, I wish some suicidal richfag would just come on here and start giving out tens of thousands of bitcoin for free before he offed himself , but one can only dream.

Even if you are escortcelling there may be some fellow incels that you still want to talk to. In my case though once I get to a certain level of wealth I'm leaving this forum. Guys like yourself can stay here and spend the rest of your life complaining about women not liking you.

 

[Arabcel011]

you’re probably being gaslighted by redpillers who tell you “dont seek female validation”, as if that’s all incels do.

incels want to have a loving connection with someone, it isn’t all about feeling ‘validated’ whatever that means

Validation is "love".

 

[decembrist_kirillov]

because you are programmed to do

 

[GeneticallyBurned]

Probably both, biology + social conditioning.
I crave female validation. I don't have the right bones though. Brutal.
I don't care about reproduction though, the idea sounds stupid to me.