1. You are projecting, maybe you didn't make any personality changes or improvements but I sure did (and I think a lot of the older incels did too). I became more outgoing, I became the "funny guy" that people wanted to be around at work, I became more social and confident (negotiated promotions and pay raises for myself), etc. I used to be the quiet guy who'd say nothing and look away.
I changed completely and guess what, still no women would date or fuck me, because at the end of the day
ATTRACTION IS 100% PHYSICAL. I also worked out a lot during that time and got close to having washboard abs, it did not make a fucking difference.
None of those things could make up for the fact that I'm 5'7", dark skinned and I don't speak and act like a thug.
All of your other positive qualities (like personality) doesn't matter if you don't meet a women's minimum threshold of attractiveness, and with women that isn't a "static value", it changes based on the types of men they have access to. So since society is no longer restricting hypergamy and shaming women for promiscuity, the average woman who is a 5 spends their 20's fucking 7's, 8's, 9's, 10's.
So what the fuck makes you think you will even have a chance unless she's been ran through, used up, and now deems you WORTHY enough to fund her lifestyle because she realizes her value has depreciated.
I'm not working my ass off to improve myself just to be some whores 12th choice (you won't even be her 2nd choice, don't kid yourself, you will be the last resort after her last resort, and she'll expect you to fulfill that role with a smile).
2. Also here's some statistical data to disprove the bullshit you're peddling:
Look at the top chart in the center (with the black border). Looks = Personality (stop coping)
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3. I'm not surprised you're already on my ignore list. I can't even remember why I added you but it was clearly justified. You just come off as a larp who is here to gaslight.