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more like hes setting himself up for failureYou guys are sooo pathetic, go cry in a corner somewhere, this man is trying.
more like hes setting himself up for failureYou guys are sooo pathetic, go cry in a corner somewhere, this man is trying.
7/10 is not incel JFLApproaching 7/10 as incel? Yeah, good idea, bro.
oh oh sorry bro my bad. I got it wrongHe means:
Approaching a 7/10 foid as an incel.
A lot depends on reputation, do you want to be known as the "CREEPY", "DESPERATE", " LOSER" who approached 1000 girls and not one of them was interested"Just lower your standards, bro!" is a meme. I've approached stunning girls far above my league and girls who were absolutely bang average at best. Girls in the latter category are not any more receptive to my approaches. In fact, I've had some better reactions from some of the most attractive girls (not that I got anywhere in terms of getting contact details).
There is no embarrassment. If the girls I approach or passersby who see my approaches want to laugh at me or talk about me, they can. I don't give a shit.
I don't give a shit about reputation. I've approached girls who have rejected me and I've subsequently seen them in passing and from the looks on their faces I can tell what they think of me. I have no doubt they've told their friends about me. That's what girls do - they tell each other everything. And do you know what? I couldn't give a fuck.A lot depends on reputation, do you want to be known as the "CREEPY", "DESPERATE", " LOSER" who approached 1000 girls and not one of them was interested
Do you want to give your acquaintances the chance to insult you futher more for trying so hard and failing regardless
Back at it again.
One of the platitudes dished out by normies is to avoid places like this. You know how the script goes - "Stay away from incel forums! They are nothing but poisonous echo chambers decided to keep you down!"
Well, last week I knew I would be working a lot. My opportunities to come here would be limited. So I thought, "you know what? Let's put it to the test." Put aside the fact that I was constantly rejected before I found this place. Put aside the fact that I've found camaraderie here and derived genuine laughs and enjoyment from reading posts, whether it be landmark post celebration threads, high effort threads or rants about GIF avatars. I'll stay away for a week and see if the self-imposed hiatus rids me of my t0xic incel pers0nality.
Having stayed away for a week, I went out and approached today. I did 2 approaches which went as follows:
1. Blonde girl in formal work attire.
"I'm just heading this way..."
"Sorry?"
"I'm just heading this way, but I thought you looked quite nice."
"Oh, thank you." No smile, she walked off instantly.
2. Brunette girl, totally my type. Less than 30 seconds after the first approach.
"I'm just heading this way..."
"No..." She literally cut me off mid-sentence, avoided eye contact and quickly walked away.
One of the most bitchy dismissals I've ever had.
She wouldn't have seen my first approach either. Although it was moments before I approached her, it was too far down the street for her to see and she was engrossed in her phone (definitely not your typical NPC girl) as she was walking towards me.
Who'd have thought?! Staying away didn't help. Looks like I'm stuck with my toxic misogynistic personality for good.
Thanks for the support. It genuinely means a lot.@Valiant Virgin you have a lot of guts to do what you're doing. there's no way I'd be able to do even a fraction of the approaches that you've done. good on you for trying man, I really mean that. personally I never tried because I know I'm too ugly for it to ever matter. with all of that said though, cold approaching really won't work unless you're decent looking, I'd say at least a 6.5. young women just have too high standards these days, and they really don't need men now that they can provide for themselves or have the government take care of them. if you really want this to work, assuming you're not less than a 3/10 in looks (and you're at least 5'8"), you really should save up and get surgery. idk what you look like but a lefort, BSSO, sliding genioplasty are talked about a lot for improving your maxilla and lower third. nothing much can be done about your eye area if it's ugly, unfortunately. the other way is to get rich and just buy hoes, but it sounds like you want a girlfriend you loves "you" (your looks, really).
If you're unattractive, sure, approaching is low value. If you're a Chad, approaching is attractive, assertive and a sign of high confidence and being a go-getter.Approaching is very low value, half the time girls probably mistake you for a homeless guy
We need to all accept this reality. It's never going to get better for any of us, we're done for... it's over.You can approach 1000 girls like unistall or approach 1 rope....
If you're unattractive, sure, approaching is low value. If you're a Chad, approaching is attractive, assertive and a sign of high confidence and being a go-getter.
Thanks for the support. It genuinely means a lot.
I'm a quiet, introverted guy with no sexual experience whatsoever. If I can approach, I'm sure you can. But to be honest, I don't recommend it. I'm at a point now where I have absolutely no desire to approach. Yesterday, I had originally intended to go out and do approaches for an hour or so. I just couldn't bring myself to do it, and instead ended up going to Starbucks - sadly, I didn't order a vanilla latte - and relaxing before quickly finding a couple of girls. The interactions were so predictable in that they lasted as long as I expected - a matter of seconds; the only surprise was that one of them was so bitchy about it.
I honestly don't know if I want a girlfriend anymore. I know I'm never going to get one anyway, but I've become disillusioned to the point where I've taken a step back and re-evaluated things. Personally, I never want kids, I like living alone and couldn't imagine living with someone else, I like having my own space and time and being able to do what I want when I want. With this in mind, I don't see how a relationship would fit into my lifestyle.
The hardest part is, quite simply, biology. I'm getting older, but my libido remains high. This is what's difficult - having natural biological desires go unfulfilled.
It kind of depends on where you live I guess, 17 is above the legal age of consent in most of Europe.you get props for trying, good show.
that 17 year old, lol of course we're too old for her, why wouldn't we be? i wonder how many on this forum could still date a 17 year old, hopefully they have the sense to try something now, I know that I fell for the stupid 'focus on your studies' meme back then
yeah but it's really asking for trouble, men are creepy now as soon as they turn either 30 or NW3. law of threes.It kind of depends on where you live I guess, 17 is above the legal age of consent in most of Europe.
Yeah, that's true. An age gap above 5 years is now considered taboo in the west. Unless it's the foid who's the older one.yeah but it's really asking for trouble, men are creepy now as soon as they turn either 30 or NW3. law of threes.
Thanks man. My inhibition is low simply because I've approached so many girls now. It's taken a long time to get to this point, but now it's just second nature.How do you low inhib enough to do this man? I can't even leave my house without feeling shit. When I'm outside I wanna not exist. I can't talk to nobodies, How the fuck do you do this if you are introverted? How did you start. Like... I don't understand bro. Where do you get courage from lol. I can't even do this shit after alcohol.
ngl man you are low inhib god. I wish I was low inhib like you then my life wouldn't be so hard as it is now.
Thanks. I was the same - I barely interacted with girls at all at school, and I suppose this is where it started to go wrong for me. I'm making up for lost time now, but it's becoming clear that I've missed the boat.you get props for trying, good show.
that 17 year old, lol of course we're too old for her, why wouldn't we be? i wonder how many on this forum could still date a 17 year old, hopefully they have the sense to try something now, I know that I fell for the stupid 'focus on your studies' meme back then
Yeah, I'm white. I've approached a handful of Asians and ethnic girls in the past, and had some decent reactions from the ethnics, although I didn't get anywhere with them. It's worth a shot.I just looked through the entire thread, it was a pretty interesting read. As other have said, cold approaching doesn't really work because foids will just check your looks to determine if they'll reject you or not. PUA clowns like Roosh only managed to make this work in the pre-Tinder era and even then they specifically went up to drunk foids or STD-ridden barsluts.
Are you white? I've noticed that all the girls you approached were white (based on their descriptions), you should try running some JBW on an Asian/ethnic foid if you ever see one.
"I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years" - so I hit back with "That's a very long time...time for a change, don't you think?"
no money no succ dick. Russain are really arrogantshe was Russian
Its hard to read. Its sad to see how u will end up like unisntall. Please find ur love. PLEASEI'll probably do some more approaches this month. I'm not setting any specific targets for the month, but if/when I do go out again I'll probably hit the 200 approach mark.
Thanks for the support. I don't think I will end up like uninstall, because I can say with 99.9% certainty that I won't approach as many girls as he has, and I'll try not to burn myself out. What he did was incredible, but from listening to his podcasts, it's clearly taken its toll - you can hear the pain in his voice. I don't want to end up the same way, and that's why I only approach sporadically.Its hard to read. Its sad to see how u will end up like unisntall. Please find ur love. PLEASE![]()
I think we are the only ones on this forum who still support uninstall.Thanks for the support. I don't think I will end up like uninstall, because I can say with 99.9% certainty that I won't approach as many girls as he has, and I'll try not to burn myself out. What he did was incredible, but from listening to his podcasts, it's clearly taken its toll - you can hear the pain in his voice. I don't want to end up the same way, and that's why I only approach sporadically.
As for my chances of success, though, well...I think the writing's on the wall. 0 dates from almost 200 approaches says it all.
lol at this soy pick up trick, monogamy is a boring misogynistic social construct you need to spice things upso I hit back with "That's a very long time...time for a change, don't you think?" She said "Right, you're pushing it now" but not in a serious way and we laughed and I walked off. But as they walked off, I saw security in the distance watching me. I left straight away.
I did my first approaches in over two months today.
It was a decent, productive day. I got a haircut and beard trim for the first time in over two months, and I looked and felt better for it - it felt good to be looksmaxxed. But I didn't do it in the vain hope that it would improve my chances with the girls - I knew my chances of success were still very slim. I did it for myself and felt better for it.
Thankfully it was a nice, sunny day. I honestly didn't think I'd be able to psyche myself up for doing approaches, and it took a long time to get going. Eventually, though, I got into the swing of things, and I managed to do 10 approaches.
1. Black haired girl in formal work attire.
She was standing outside a store holding leaflets. I went up to her and started chatting - "How's it going? Just finished work?" Turns out the store was her place of work. I said "I thought you looked quite nice - that's why I'm talking to you." She was friendly and chatty but when I asked her out she said she had a boyfriend.
2. Eastern European sounding girl.
Asked her for directions to Starbucks. She hesitated and when she spoke I knew she was foreign so asked if she was Russian and told her I thought she looked nice. She smiled but walked away.
3. Brunette girl in red top and formal work trousers showing off her thick ass.
I saw her walk by me so I quickly walked after her and ran in front of her to stop her. I said I thought she looked nice, she said "sorry?" twice and from her facial expression I thought she was unimpressed but then she said, "oh, okay" as it registered. She was fine about it but said she was in a rush to get back to work.
4. Blonde wavy-haired girl with friend - possible lead.
I saw the two of them walking towards me and told the target I thought she looked nice. Now, normally girls with their friends don't stop when I approach them but she did and said "thank you" and gave me a genuine warm smile. I started chatting and she asked for my name and introduced me to her friend. I suggested going out for a coffee and she offered to give me her number - based on past experiences, I figured she probably wouldn't answer if I called, so I suggested she add me on Facebook and she gave me her phone for me to send a friend request to my profile. Best interaction of the day, but I'm almost expecting her to have cancelled the request by now.
5. Girl with friends.
I thought she was in a group of three but there were two other girls behind them and they stopped when I approached, so this meant I stopped a group of five girls for the first time. Went direct but they walked off.
6. Stunning black haired girl with older woman (presumably her mum).
Less than a minute after approaching the group of five girls. She was so fucking fine. Stunning face, hourglass figure. Went direct and she said "thanks" but walked off.
7. Scared girl with friend.
Approached her at a street corner and she looked apprehensive right off the bat. I laughed and said "don't worry" and she said "it's okay" but when I gave her the compliment they walked off.
8. Smiley blonde girl in leather jacket.
I saw her walk by me coming out of the train station, quickly turned and walked after her, gently touched her on the shoulder and went direct. She smiled and laughed in a receptive way and hesitated - I was hopeful but said she was going to meet someone.
9. Blonde girl (6/10) in gym gear.
Went direct. She said "thank you" but I knew she wasn't feeling it and she walked off.
10. Jailbait.
Ah, what better way to round off the day than approaching a jailbait? She was baby-faced but had fairly big boobs and a nice thick ass and she was wearing a shop uniform, so I thought I'd take the chance. Alas, when I said I thought she looked nice, she opened her mouth in shock, at which point I knew...I said "you look a bit young" and she said "I'm 17"...I just said "I'm too old" and walked off and she said "it's okay" but I could tell she felt uneasy.
I managed to get contact details from 1 out of 10 girls - that's one more than I expected to be honest. Yet I felt strangely positive about the day. Maybe it was a combination of my looksmaxxing, walking around in the sun and, crucially, avoiding the train fare into the city and back - meaning I got to go round doing my approaches free of charge. And I gave myself a specific period of time in which to do the approaches, knowing that once I was done I could get home and relax and enjoy watching the Champions League final.
I'll probably do some more approaches this month. I'm not setting any specific targets for the month, but if/when I do go out again I'll probably hit the 200 approach mark.
It seems that way. It's sad that so many people turned against him at the drop of a hat.I think we are the only ones on this forum who still support uninstall.
I appreciate the kind words, but honestly, you shouldn't worry about me. In general I'm pretty level headed and deal with my inceldom fairly well.I really really hope u and uninstall will find ur love. I dont want my buddy boyos to die aloneplease be strong
I still wish u luck boyoIt seems that way. It's sad that so many people turned against him at the drop of a hat.
I appreciate the kind words, but honestly, you shouldn't worry about me. In general I'm pretty level headed and deal with my inceldom fairly well.
This isn't about finding 'the love of my life' or anything like that. Personally, I never want kids, I like living alone and wouldn't want to live with anyone else, I have no interest in getting married...hell, I've even started to lose interest in the idea of having a girlfriend. I approach because it can be enjoyable when done sporadically and with realistic expectations - it may not seem enjoyable, but I often think of positive interactions I've had with girls, whether it's been having a laugh or getting to touch them. In the overwhelming majority of cases, it's not going to lead anywhere - that's just the way it is - but, at the end of the day, at least I can say I tried.
I have never heard anyone who met his girlfriend through cold approach. But keep trying you are the one embarrasing yourself.
New to threat, of the 200 which was the closest?I did my first approach in exactly one month today.
The girl was waiting outside a store. She had black, wavy hair, she was wearing a purple top and looked Middle Eastern. I won't lie - she was fine AF. Sadly, her didn't have the personality to match. I went direct and straight away she looked unreceptive. I said she had an exotic look to which she replied "well, I'm not" in a local accent. At this point I saw a ring on her finger and pointed it out and she said she was married. I just laughed and walked off.
10 minutes later, I was walking down the same street on which I approached her when I saw her walking towards me. JFL. What were the chances?! I did a sharp left turn and went into the adjacent mall to avoid her. I don't know why in all honesty - I should have just walked straight past her.
I was going to approach more girls, but I couldn't bring myself to do it. The motivation to do this anymore is running seriously low. What's the point? It's clearly never going to work. I've approached almost 200 girls and not even got a date with any of them. At this point, it's obvious that it doesn't matter how many I approach - it will never work.
I went direct and straight away she looked unreceptive. I said she had an exotic look to which she replied "well, I'm not" in a local accent.
At this point I saw a ring on her finger and pointed it out and she said she was married. I just laughed and walked off.
8 girls gave me contact details, but 2 of them were at their work and said they had a boyfriend and most likely only offered their contact details as a compromise so I would leave, so I don't count them. Of the 6, only 1 actually responded to me on Facebook.New to threat, of the 200 which was the closest?
Chad can cold approach and facefuck that girl that night.I have never heard anyone who met his girlfriend through cold approach. But keep trying you are the one embarrasing yourself.
It’s over.