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Are you a "nice guy"?

soebre

soebre

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Tbh some of the stuff applies to me like being insecure or not making eye contact or not understanding social cues (but I'm literally autistic so can't help it).

But I just hate this kinda stuff. Why do people act like men should never have any insecurities, never feel bad about himself, always be confident, never have any worries or anxieties, etc? But all of that is fine and even sometimes expected in women? Men have to be completely perfect now or they're not "real men". And they act like it's the worst thing ever for a man to be like this, a nice guy who is basically just an ugly guy with mental health issues and/or autism.

Of course we aren't going to be ok with being alone or with how are life is because we've been alone forever and there isn't anything to feel good about. These people can't ever understand because they're too privileged
 
Im a swood guy
 

Tbh some of the stuff applies to me like being insecure or not making eye contact or not understanding social cues (but I'm literally autistic so can't help it).

But I just hate this kinda stuff. Why do people act like men should never have any insecurities, never feel bad about himself, always be confident, never have any worries or anxieties, etc? But all of that is fine and even sometimes expected in women? Men have to be completely perfect now or they're not "real men". And they act like it's the worst thing ever for a man to be like this, a nice guy who is basically just an ugly guy with mental health issues and/or autism.

Of course we aren't going to be ok with being alone or with how are life is because we've been alone forever and there isn't anything to feel good about. These people can't ever understand because they're too privileged
Based on these standards I’d be considered a “nice guy” but I have never purchased porn from whores OF why pay when you can get that shit for free and I’ve never participated in “nice guy” things like opening door for women or trying desperately to get a females attention. Ugly autistic men shouldn’t be shamed for not being “real men” we literally cannot help but act like this and I think it’s unfair to compare us to NT socially superior men in this regard. I also hate the stigma of us being the “creepy guy” even when we do nothing but literally exist :feelswhat:
 
who else high af rn
 
depends on profit.

if i see profit with you, i make you my bitch and be nice to you for a while.
if yr a random, you pray you dont fuck with me.
 
who else high af rn
I will be pretty soon .

nice guy is just another word for an ugly guy that is to nice .

chad can be nice and nobody cares .


then again being nice in this shit gets you nowhere . Or else People wanna walk all over your Ass
 
If by being a "nice guy" you mean i try to be a good person and be honorable than yeah i guess i am. But that doesn't really mean shit in this world, only when you have to betabux
 
I'm an incel full of hate, I can't be nice :feelsjuice:
 
Yes - I'm "nice" enough to denigrate orbiters and holes.

S.R.B was in group therapy twice, eating disorder support group, hospitalization twice. When one is hospitalized, they are transitioned into Partial hospitalization. She was in Partial twice as well. 2016 Homecoming with a tall football Mulatto, dating tall Castizo in 2017.

"So, Anxious Jane is graduating soon"

"When Anxious Jane realizes how difficult it will be to communicate with James, she'll be right back in the hospital"

"No, I think she'll be okay. She has plenty of friends and support"

I dropped a pencil during a private chat:
"Oh, that's right. We have to keep our voices down because Intellau liked her"(Group Psychologist; male)
"Why does he even want her? She already has a boyfriend"(Understudy)
Note that she was flirting heavily with Chris often.
"I told those two to cut it out, like, 'Hey, that's not appropriate'"(Group Psychologist)
He would always quiet down if he thought I was listening to their chats.

I was an anxious fifteen-year-old with MDD and GAD. Each day, I was filled with crippling anxiety/"hazy depression" and would often start "shaking" on the way to group therapy. They gave me stress balls so I would stop fidgeting with my hands during therapy time. Still, the group psychologist considered me "NT" and often criticized me for my failure to make eye contact with other people in the room/failure to speak to other group youth(Social cue problems).

Shannon Rose was a twelve-year-old with "social anxiety" and "depression". During group therapy, I was told to speak to Shannon, which was ignored because she preferred a taller, older boy over me and sat near him daily. The psychologists eventually switched Shannon to another group out of concern for her "progress"(They believed I was "negatively influencing" her by behaving in accordance with my illnesses); Shannon would mimic my neuro-atypical gestures to get attention.

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Society actually pressures low-value men to be nice but then denigrates them for it.
 
No. I'm mean.
 
It's his looks, not his behavior.
 

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