It's fucking insulting my intelligence and it's also extremely insulting in itself. She tells herself she's well meaning (as it's harder to accept not having something you really want)
When not consciously trying to manipulate me she also shows her true thinking when talking about completely different stuff (when talking about approaching someone to ask for a job, she said today "you can't do that, you'll start stuttering and panicking", shows what she really thinks about me). Plus she has stopped saying "you look good" months ago, as she probably figures this will make me more secure and want a relationship.
She knows I can never get a relationship (too ugly and autistic) and really thinks she can talk me out of it (manipulate me). Give me some good gotcha questions or arguments. She randomly says stuff against relationships when I don't clean up after myself or when I act weird or when I look especially disheveled.
She does this:
- only ever listing the downsides of relationships
- saying stuff like "it will be tiring, you'll always have to have a clean household"
- when talking about something completely different, like about a job, she says "you'll start stuttering if you talk to someone"
AND she most likely tells herself, he'll be ok without a gf in a few years, wanting love will decrease when he's 29/30/in his 30s
When not consciously trying to manipulate me she also shows her true thinking when talking about completely different stuff (when talking about approaching someone to ask for a job, she said today "you can't do that, you'll start stuttering and panicking", shows what she really thinks about me). Plus she has stopped saying "you look good" months ago, as she probably figures this will make me more secure and want a relationship.
She knows I can never get a relationship (too ugly and autistic) and really thinks she can talk me out of it (manipulate me). Give me some good gotcha questions or arguments. She randomly says stuff against relationships when I don't clean up after myself or when I act weird or when I look especially disheveled.
She does this:
- only ever listing the downsides of relationships
- saying stuff like "it will be tiring, you'll always have to have a clean household"
- when talking about something completely different, like about a job, she says "you'll start stuttering if you talk to someone"
AND she most likely tells herself, he'll be ok without a gf in a few years, wanting love will decrease when he's 29/30/in his 30s
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