Cope Can I allow myself to believe I've had sex if I don't know what sex feels like?

[Deleted member 8353]

I want to stop believing that I'm a virgin, but this is a difficult thing to achieve. It's not the idea of sex with some random foid that I care so much about, I can satisfy those urges through fapping. However I need to know what sex feels like to recreate it within my head, and I can't simply fabricate a memory of an experience which I've never had. Or maybe I can? I'm uncertain.

Escortcelling isn't really a solution for me, as it's risky, expensive, and I can't afford it right now anyway.

I've had sexual dreams that were quite pleasurable in the past, and one in which I remember what it felt like. Perhaps I can alter my memory of that dream to suit my needs, but it's very abstract. Although I suppose that if that's how I've experienced "sex", then there is nothing saying that the sensations of that dream weren't a genuine sexual experience. Maybe that's the solution tbh, and that I'm a virgin only if I choose to believe that's the case.

 

[Baldcuecel]

The closest thing to the real sensation of sex I would say is a fleshlight.

 

[TheSecondComing]

Bro...

 

[anon]

The other day I had a really good fap with my fleshlight. I have a stand for it so it was hands free. I also used VR and a fleshlight warmer. When I added some hot nearly boiling water to the fleshlight it was very warm, almost hot. It felt quite real to me even though I don't know what the real thing truly feels like, but it can't be too far from what I've experienced.

Obviously genuine sex is more than a simple physical act only involving genitals, but as far as the actual physical feeling of sex I think I got pretty close. I was so into it I felt something in my throat and stomach.
It was one of the best faps I've ever experienced. It was almost as good as my first ever fap when I was 12.

 

[BrendioEEE]

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Bro...

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

megacope

 

[BrettyBoy]

Let’s hope it isn’t over for you, man.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Let’s hope it isn’t over for you, man.

It's probably over tbh.

 

[BrettyBoy]

It's probably over tbh.

Sad shit, bro.

 

[Pareg]

Just do it honestly. Thinking of doing the same, brother.

 

[Joelossus]

No offense bro, but i get the impression, that this whole "altering your memories thing" is slowly getting out of hand. I'm not sure if this is healthy anymore.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

I've thought about this too, hopefully we can figure out how to successfully pull it off.

 

[desperatecel178]

This is peak virginity.

 

[Vermilioncore]

You can fool yourself into believing just about anything. I fabricated entire memories in my head with my former oneitis. Made a whole life with her full of sex, love, heartbreak, fun times, etc.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

No offense bro, but i get the impression, that this whole "altering your memories thing" is slowly getting out of hand. I'm not sure if this is healthy anymore.

Maybe not, but still probably healthier than doing nothing tbh. It seriously makes me feel better.

 

[ihaveno1]

megacope

 

[Joelossus]

It seriously makes me feel better.

I don't doubt that tbh, just be aware of the risks which might come with it, that's all i'm saying.

 

[Wonder]

I've heard about strong coping but this is a new level.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

Yep, cope levels are off the scale if you try to do this tbh.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

Maybe try learning hypnotism and do it to yourself.