his thread is wrong in so many areas I don't know where to start
For starters, sex is sinful outside of marriage, because it is how you create children. Studies show that children grow up properly in a nuclear family, that is, one that has a mother and father. When children grow up in single parent households, they often grow up to have much more problems in general.
Teen girls who get abortions do so because they understand they are not ready to raise a family. Married people have abortions at a significantly lower rate because they understand they are properly equipped to raise a child.
Also, the idea that reproduction should be through mutual prayer is false, and here is why. How many kids is one going to raise? Let's say someone wants to have 5 kids. So what are they supposed to do, only have mutual prayer with their wife 5 times?
Sex isn't just about reproduction. It has other purposes, and one of them is pair bonding as well as a way for a husband and wife to express their love and desire for each other. Hence the term "making love". If you are having sex outside of marriage, you aren't doing it in the proper way that is healthy.
When you have sex outside of marriage, you are diminishing its value, and lowering the chances of the marriage being successful, studies have shown that the higher amount of previous sexual partners results in divorce more often. Therefore, it is only advisable to have sex during marriage.
Why is marriage so important? Well, marriage is a formally, or legally, recognized union between a man and a woman, This union is extremely important, because, as I said earlier, it creates a nuclear family unit, which is ideal for children to prosper in.
Another thing you said was that since no one is born married, so therefore the act is sinful, and compared it to owning a gun, and that it would be illogical only if you have a license. This is a bad analogy and I will explain why. To make a proper comparison, think of driving a car. if you are a 12 year old who gets into a car, and you don't know how to drive it, and choose to joyride, is that wrong?
Of course. because you're not in the proper position to drive the car and it has risks to yourself as well as other people. In order to drive a car, you need to be qualified to do it. In most places, when you reach age 16, you can learn how to drive a car, then after that, you take a test demonstrating your ability, and if you pass, you get your license. And then it becomes okay to drive a car. This process ensures when you are driving a car, you are properly qualified to do it.
Similarly, if you are not married, you are not in the proper position to have sex. God states that to have sex, you must first reach puberty, and then you must get married, and then you are in the proper position to have sex.
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