The general diversity of this community is stunning, no doubt, and although I may have some theories, I can never really put my hands on an exact why. What I can do though, is come up with somewhat of a rational realization on why lonely men are scattered around everywhere.
Everyone in this community is coping all over the place. In addition of having looksmaxxing sites and this forum which mostly just consists of teenagers eventually leaving this phase of believing they will die alone despite them ever even trying (most normies go through this) we have r/foreveralone, r/fa30plus, r/depression, r/lonely, all of which are completely different from one another especially in terms of members’ lingo and age. We then have Twitter users and they’re not united either, even the most supposedly proclaimed incels over there deny textbook blackpill. And last, we have r/inceltear which I’m not even gonna get into it.
So why is it? Why are we so diverse? Why couldn’t we just universally form one community and stick to it as it would make sense since we are all lonely, right?
Well we can’t and I think that’s all to do with modern age identity politics and taught beliefs within our community. A very good example of this is by looking at the children in my country. I see very young boys, like maybe 12 or even 10, whose minds were polluted by outside sources (e.g. Andrew Tate). They’re barely able to comprehend the fundamental of English, can’t write for themselves, can’t speak for themselves, and yet they are pushed so heavily by social standards into picking a side as quickly as humanly possible and then settle on it for the rest of their lives without having baseline structure of anything for themselves.
And it’s pretty much the exact same with western societies and even the users on this forum. Even in here, everyone has its own opinion on women.
For example, if I as someone who is residing in an overly Islamic country inform you, a westerner from America, that women in here can be just as promiscuous, woke and lookist as every other nation, you won’t hesitate to bring out your pitchforks; you would immediately turn combative and aggressive towards me purely because I’m shattering your only hopes and dreams, all your ideologies which you’ve been forced to accept but not shape from a young age, all your taught beliefs, all of your identity, all would get demolished the second I tell you this and I don’t blame you. Mine would too.
We can’t settle on ANYthing because all of us have been progressively losing that one little sense of shared identity and solidarity that was once common within our ancestors. You choose to distract yourself by standing next to certain beliefs (e.g. western societies have ruined women and that’s why you can’t get laid) and I choose to cope with more realistic way of thinking (e.g. looks are everything and I’m here because I’m ugly). At the end, even us can’t establish solidarity and we choose to cope with different realities.
Everyone in this community is coping all over the place. In addition of having looksmaxxing sites and this forum which mostly just consists of teenagers eventually leaving this phase of believing they will die alone despite them ever even trying (most normies go through this) we have r/foreveralone, r/fa30plus, r/depression, r/lonely, all of which are completely different from one another especially in terms of members’ lingo and age. We then have Twitter users and they’re not united either, even the most supposedly proclaimed incels over there deny textbook blackpill. And last, we have r/inceltear which I’m not even gonna get into it.
So why is it? Why are we so diverse? Why couldn’t we just universally form one community and stick to it as it would make sense since we are all lonely, right?
Well we can’t and I think that’s all to do with modern age identity politics and taught beliefs within our community. A very good example of this is by looking at the children in my country. I see very young boys, like maybe 12 or even 10, whose minds were polluted by outside sources (e.g. Andrew Tate). They’re barely able to comprehend the fundamental of English, can’t write for themselves, can’t speak for themselves, and yet they are pushed so heavily by social standards into picking a side as quickly as humanly possible and then settle on it for the rest of their lives without having baseline structure of anything for themselves.
And it’s pretty much the exact same with western societies and even the users on this forum. Even in here, everyone has its own opinion on women.
For example, if I as someone who is residing in an overly Islamic country inform you, a westerner from America, that women in here can be just as promiscuous, woke and lookist as every other nation, you won’t hesitate to bring out your pitchforks; you would immediately turn combative and aggressive towards me purely because I’m shattering your only hopes and dreams, all your ideologies which you’ve been forced to accept but not shape from a young age, all your taught beliefs, all of your identity, all would get demolished the second I tell you this and I don’t blame you. Mine would too.
We can’t settle on ANYthing because all of us have been progressively losing that one little sense of shared identity and solidarity that was once common within our ancestors. You choose to distract yourself by standing next to certain beliefs (e.g. western societies have ruined women and that’s why you can’t get laid) and I choose to cope with more realistic way of thinking (e.g. looks are everything and I’m here because I’m ugly). At the end, even us can’t establish solidarity and we choose to cope with different realities.
