[Cope] Let's talk about copes.

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What's preventing you from roping, boyos? A hobby? Family? Friends? Pets? Something else? Talk to me. I want to know what you guys have going for you in your lives that distracts you from your inceldom. At this point, I don't have much. It feels like all I do is work and sleep, and I don't even do much of the latter. I have two jobs (nothing special- I'm basically a glorified dishwasher) and work a minimum of 65 hours a week. I want to do something with what little free time I have, especially since I've been heavily considering dropping one of my aforementioned jobs...

Before I started working as much as I do now, I really only had two hobbies. I played video games and wrote/produced music on my computer. I eventually fell out of music production and spent all of my free time (eg: time not sleeping or working a part-time minimum-wager) playing video games until my eyes dried out while drinking myself into a state of certain retardation. Even that became stale after some time. After a recent mental collapse, I've been searching for something to remove myself from my inceldom- something to identify myself with, that could allow me to feel validated as a human being despite my hardship with women...

Then, recently, seemingly out of nowhere I remembered: I attended a music festival in Boston in the spring with a former work colleague. I had been drinking quite a bit at the time, but on the first day of that festival, I thought of a question she had asked me sometime prior: "What do you really want to do with your life?" I asked her if she remembered asking me that question. She said, yes. I pointed to the band playing (horribly, tbh, I thought they sucked) onstage and said, "that. That's what I want to do."

Even when I was only producing (mostly electronic style) music, I'd had these fantasies of performing for a crowd. I had so many thoughts and feelings that I wanted to mold into songs that were not only therapeutic for myself, but could also be for other people. Music was a route of escape from the pain I'd endured throughout my lifetime. There's very little music I've heard that I didn't like, but as of the last few years, I feel as though the rock genre has stolen my heart. I've long fantasized about being an ace guitarist, but never felt the desire to pursue it until recently. I just bought a cheap acoustic-electric starter guitar and will begin my lessons tomorrow. I can't express to you guys how excited and relieved I am to finally have something both fun and practical that will pull me away from my pain and frustration as an incel. I strongly doubt that I'll get anywhere with this, professionally, but it will give me something to do with my free time that might actually be worth a damn, instead of getting drunk and shooting "bad guys."

So, what's your story? What do you do? Why did you choose to do it over other things? What, besides women, makes you tick?
 
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My nice car, my BMW.
 
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Which animes are your favorites? Any recommendations? I've tried watching some, but none of them could hold my attention. Maybe I just haven't found the right one, yet?
 
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Which animes are your favorites? Any recommendations? I've tried watching some, but none of them could hold my attention. Maybe I just haven't found the right one, yet?
I love cyberpunk anime, my favorite:

Ghost in the shell: stand alone complex
 
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The only thing preventing me from roping is the fact that I haven't gone ER yet. If I take myself out I'm not going alone.
 
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ToothpickStick

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Hentai is the only fantasy that's stopping me from roping from reality. quite ironic how the least real thing is the thing that wants me to stay alive the most
 
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If it weren't for my parents I'd be dead by now
 
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gaming is pretty good cope
 
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What's preventing you from roping, boyos?
I'm not even sure anymore. I had been thinking that it was the attachment to my parents, and while that might be part of it, up until recently I barely had the motivation to move, much less rope. Even with my newfound motivation, I still have absolutely no hope for the future.

It's kind of funny really, I mean it only recently dawned on me just how much time I've spent rotting in my room, often going weeks without leaving my house, or at least the vicinity of my yard. Much of my adolescence, half my 20s, just fucking gone. Now I have to start basically from square one, ensuring that even if I dedicate my time to improving myself, I'm pretty much guaranteed to spend the remainder of my 20s just trying to salvage my life. Meanwhile others have actual careers, many will be starting families, being content in actually having experienced their youth.

More than anything else I feel a burning anger towards the people who fucked me up as a kid, and who for the most part did this to me. Despite my life being essentially ruined, I think that if I were to simply rope, at least as a result of the reasons I've described, then that would be the ultimate defeat.
 
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Cooking and eating, fapping, playing video games ( but nowadays they only make me feel like i'm wasting time for sp games and frustrate me in mp), watching anime, watching movies and tv series, listening to random music from across the world both big, mid sized and really niche (who are on bandcamp for example), magic mushrooms, ofc my mother also keeps me from roping. So there are more things that you could expect.
 
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Incels.co is like what i when making all time, games etc... but i will rope in 6 years if im not die of natural causes (or other shit).
 
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A few video games I need to see resolved and I want to at least SEA and Eastern Europe maxx once before I go. :feelsrope:
 
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I don't know tbh. i think i just didn't decided to rope yet
 
Arthas93

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Then, recently, seemingly out of nowhere I remembered: I attended a music festival in Boston in the spring with a former work colleague. I had been drinking quite a bit at the time, but on the first day of that festival, I thought of a question she had asked me sometime prior:
You are not an Incel if you attended a music festival with a female work colleague.
 
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Roping is no option for me because I want to see what this crazy world will look like when I'm old. I always was autistically fascinated by politics, I already sat alone in a corner, drawing maps of fictional country's and played strategy games on them when I was in kindergarten.

I want to see the collapse of Europe, or maybe how it will be saved last minute by a new führer. In case of the collapse, I'm eager to see what comes afterwards. A Islamic califat? 1984? Brave new World? We really life in interesting times and I don't want to miss anything, even if it means I have to endure this shit life.
 
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I'm not even sure anymore. I had been thinking that it was the attachment to my parents, and while that might be part of it, up until recently I barely had the motivation to move, much less rope. Even with my newfound motivation, I still have absolutely no hope for the future.

It's kind of funny really, I mean it only recently dawned on me just how much time I've spent rotting in my room, often going weeks without leaving my house, or at least the vicinity of my yard. Much of my adolescence, half my 20s, just fucking gone. Now I have to start basically from square one, ensuring that even if I dedicate my time to improving myself, I'm pretty much guaranteed to spend the remainder of my 20s just trying to salvage my life. Meanwhile others have actual careers, many will be starting families, being content in actually having experienced their youth.
Scary how relatable this post is.
Fuck man there is no worse feeling to me than knowing you missed your youth and the time is ticking fast. The self esteem of this seem to be permanent, although i never had any to begin with. Sidenote can you just imagine how much sex people had while we rotted in our room? All the adventures, all the experiences, falling in and out of love several times over and over. Meanwhile all i felt was deep anxiety, depression and lonliness.

One thing elliot rodger was right about is that when puberty comes, your life either becomes heaven or hell on earth. From an early age i could feel my self esteem going downhill real fast when i noticed all the people getting into puberty and becoming attracted to eachother, suddenly there was a sexual hierarchy and i was at the bottom of it.
 
Terranigma

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work a minimum of 65 hours a week
RIP. You're a slave. You don't have time for copes.

I recommend moving to a civilized country where this kind of thing is illegal.
 
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Alcoholcope is best cope

My life is shit lmao idk what would happen if i roped
 
LiterallyASoyboy

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Scary how relatable this post is.
Fuck man there is no worse feeling to me than knowing you missed your youth and the time is ticking fast. The self esteem of this seem to be permanent, although i never had any to begin with. Sidenote can you just imagine how much sex people had while we rotted in our room? All the adventures, all the experiences, falling in and out of love several times over and over. Meanwhile all i felt was deep anxiety, depression and lonliness.

One thing elliot rodger was right about is that when puberty comes, your life either becomes heaven or hell on earth. From an early age i could feel my self esteem going downhill real fast when i noticed all the people getting into puberty and becoming attracted to eachother, suddenly there was a sexual hierarchy and i was at the bottom of it.
Yeah, I wouldn't really have understood this feeling in it's entirety a few years ago. It's hard to find a reason to do anything when I know that the real problem is my face, and the years which were supposed to be the most fun I spent living as a borderline hiki, due to so many experiences of people treating me like shit that I just gave up and spent the years in my room. I mean sure, maybe I could surgerymaxx. But how realistic is that? I'm in my mid twenties, broke, and I've spent the past few days stumbling over my words like a retard just to ask for applications for entry level job positions. By the time I could have anything close to enough money to make a difference I'll already be too old, I kinda already am too old tbh.

But even if I manage to do all of that, then I'll just be normie tier at best, and the only path newly opened up to me would be that of betabuxxing a foid who probably already has kids. I don't even want kids of my own, the last thing I'm going to do is raise Chad's kids, I'd rather be dead.

Lets just be honest here, it's over for me, it's beyond fucking over, and if you're like me it's probably over for you too. I've given up any hope of ascension, at this point I'd like to save money and try to lower my anxiety levels enough to travel and experience sex with qt noodlewhore prostitutes, and eventually once I get too old I'll likely either rope or blow my brains out. If I don't do that shit, I'll probably do something similar. What a fulfilling life, but that's the experience of being born ugly, JFL.
 
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You are not an Incel if you attended a music festival with a female work colleague.
I can’t tell if this is a troll comment or not. She made it very clear to me, despite my feelings, that we were only “friends,” which apparently also turned out to be a lie because it take her long after that to cut me out of her life entirely, like it was nothing. You can spend time with women while still being involuntarily celibate.
 
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I can’t tell if this is a troll comment or not. She made it very clear to me, despite my feelings, that we were only “friends,” which apparently also turned out to be a lie because it take her long after that to cut me out of her life entirely, like it was nothing. You can spend time with women while still being involuntarily celibate.
Bullshit, if the foid wants to go places with you or allow you to be her "friend" you aren't an Incel.

You are either just a volcel or a low tier normie larping here.
 
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I'm 100% serious by the way. I have nothing else in the way of ambitions or dreams. They're all dead.
 
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Bullshit, if the foid wants to go places with you or allow you to be her "friend" you aren't an Incel.

You are either just a volcel or a low tier normie larping here.
So by this logic, we're broadening the definition of celibacy to include abstinence from ANY social interaction with the opposite sex. We're completely ignoring the actual meaning of the word celibacy. Is that what we're doing, here? I assume you feel that if a foid even looks at you then you've ascended.
 
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My waifu, honestly. I feel like I can go further for her, but I am getting old.
 
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I like making music too.

I'm bored of games now, I can't enjoy them like I used to.

Weed is my main cope.
 
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I've always felt like I was supposed to be a martyr for something. Idk what it is, but I'll never rope unless I've just finished going ER. But if that doesn't come to pass, then I'll live for my copes.

My problem with roping is what exactly comes after. If its nothing, then I have to make the most of this life I have. If its something, then idk. I personally believe there is nothing. Our "souls" are simply quantum energy in our neurons. When we die, the energy is released and our consciousness disappears.

On the cope side, currently I'm trying to put together enough money to buy a house. After that, I'll probably buy a sex doll or two and escortcel for a couple years. I'll probably have a surrogate kid by my mid 30s and I'll try to raise him as best I can. I'm hopeful about the future, because we live in incredibly volitile times. Tech is improving rapidly, politics is getting more extreme. I don't want to miss it.
 
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So by this logic, we're broadening the definition of celibacy to include abstinence from ANY social interaction with the opposite sex. We're completely ignoring the actual meaning of the word celibacy. Is that what we're doing, here? I assume you feel that if a foid even looks at you then you've ascended.
Foids never even look at me, let alone interact. What kind of IT cuck bullshit is that?
MOD's please ban this larper! REEEEEEE!!
:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::banhammer::no::chad:
 
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Foids never even look at me, let alone interact. What kind of IT cuck bullshit is that?
MOD's please ban this larper! REEEEEEE!!
:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::banhammer::no::chad:
Oh, I've got it, now. Everyone here who isn't exactly like you is a larper.
 
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So by this logic, we're broadening the definition of celibacy to include abstinence from ANY social interaction with the opposite sex.
No, but if foids regularly invite you along to social gatherings and such where you (as an uggo, presuming you're not a mentalcel) are visible to her peers and family, you are probably not an incel. Foids very instinctively understand how SMV works and will cut ugly males out of their lives. Female SMV is highly reliant on which kind of people she surrounds herself with and openly giving a 3/10 her time and attention is an opposite signifier. Sometimes this can be done as virtue signaling, but it's not a friendship then... or they keep ugly men around as friends in places where they can't be seen (for example as phone or online friends, who listen to her woes) by her peers or males that she is attracted to, but this is very rare.
 
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No, but if foids regularly invite you along to social gatherings and such where you (as an uggo, presuming you're not a mentalcel) are visible to her peers and family, you are probably not an incel. Foids very instinctively understand how SMV works and will cut ugly males out of their lives. Female SMV is highly reliant on which kind of people she surrounds herself with and openly giving a 3/10 her time and attention is an opposite signifier. Sometimes this can be done as virtue signaling, but it's not a friendship then... or they keep ugly men around as friends in places where they can't be seen (for example as phone or online friends, who listen to her woes) by her peers or males that she is attracted to, but this is very rare.
Thank you, that's exactly what I meant.

How can the guy get invited to places by a foid? Have you ever imagined a foid aproaching and interacting with you like that?

That guy is either giving us a made up story or he is a beta that got put in the friendzone.
 
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