SuicideFuel My brother is getting married and he wants me to attend . . .

[Esoteric7]

My younger brother messaged me in September that he is getting married in January. He is 5 years younger than me and in his early/mid 20's.

I have not seen any member of my family for 4 years. I ghosted everyone since October, 2019.

I don't want to attend for the following reasons:

1. I'm on bad terms with my parents and I don't want to see them. My mum used to beat me quite badly as a kid, my dad persistently made me feel incompetent and resented me for not being as masculine as him. I also feel angry for how they knowingly sent me to a primary school full of racist animals who were very hostile towards me.

2. I am fat. I weigh 75kg at 5ft'7. I don't want to show up after 4 years as a fatty. I'm struggling to lose weight because there's no incentive and I keep eating goyslop as a form of cope.

3. I am non-NT - social anxiety and very socially awkward. The last thing I want is to attend this wedding and be that quiet, weird, loner guy sitting by himself and no one is talking to him. But that WILL happen because I'm always that guy.

Although my brother did mention that it would be a 'segregated wedding', that I could see him in private and no one will know. I don't know why he said that. I've never told him about my situation. I don't see how I could attend without running into other people.

4. There will be looks of scrutiny and suspicion regarding my single status compared to my younger brother.

5. I will feel extreme ragefuel seeing him get married. Why would I want to see someone celebrating for fulfilling a basic human need that is denied to me? FUCK THAT.

I've made up my mind that I cannot attend. If he texts me I will have to ignore his message, as much as it would pain me to do so. I'm kind of embarrassed he's way ahead of me, and need to figure out what I'm going to do.

I'm also concerned that if I don't attend this will cause irreversible resentment from my younger brother if I decide to reconcile with my family in the future . . .

I also don't want to tell him the truth about my situation because I'd be embarrassed to be perceived in such a manner.

 

[Pancakecel]

Yeah I don't think going to that will have any benefit for you

 

[Friday I'm In Love]

He invited you not as a kind gesture, but a power play

 

[CantEscapeYourFate]

Dude, don't go. Nothing good will come out of this. Your asshole brother just wants to mog you in front of everyone.

 

[Esoteric7]

Dude, don't go. Nothing good will come out of this. Your asshole brother just wants to mog you in front of everyone.

I agree. I didn't anticipate my own brother would want to mog me

 

[supersoldier]

Dude, don't go. Nothing good will come out of this. Your asshole brother just wants to mog you in front of everyone.

 

[supersoldier]

if you go there you will feel like shit after it and you will remember every awkward moment of it, every stare, every gossip smile

 

[idgaf]

Just tell him you caught covid when the wedding day comes up

 

[Incel TV]

Just don’t go if you don’t want to

 

[EnglishCel]

Don't go.

 

[darkdungeon]

Normie sadist or brother who won't give up.

You should go dressed casually just to prove a point and cause hassle.

 

[THE TRUE DIGLET]

go.

it would make an interesting thread

 

[Fifita]

They want u to go so u can all hands and say is everything is forgotten and forgiven. Ghost the MF .

 

[Awake]

He is 5 years younger than me and in his early/mid 20's.

ovER he will get cheated and cucked by his foid ,how ugly is toilet?

 

[prajeet88]

How tall is your brother?

 

[Esoteric7]

How tall is your brother?

He's like an inch 1/2 taller

 

[Esoteric7]

ovER he will get cheated and cucked by his foid ,how ugly is toilet?

I don't know what she looks like. He met her through this Telegram marriage group jfl

 

[prajeet88]

He's like an inch 1/2 taller

How tall is his wife? 5'8.5 is a decent height. Foids 5'2 and below are tallfag only, ditto for foids 5'7 and above. Foids 5'3-5'6 all want a guy 4+ inches taller, so 5'8.5 has good overlap with those.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

Do not go!!!!!

 

[Caelus]

DO NOT ATTEND.

 

[B33troot]

Attend the wedding for the sake of formality and then leave as soon as possible.

 

[cunnylover69]

Go there, get super drunk and beat up your parents.

 

[Thaway]

If i were you, given the information you provided, i wouldn't go either.

Always better to go with your gut feeling.

 

[oofy]

Mogs me for having siblings

 

[nice_try]

Why do you have to ask an online forum full of idiots about that decision? Can't you make decisions on your own?

Anyways

He invited you not as a kind gesture, but a power play

Your asshole brother just wants to mog you in front of everyone.

This.

You're a certified cuck if you attend, don't do it

Yes, you ghosted them for a reason, so stick with it.

Just go and sit somewhere, it's not that deep, also you might regret not going later

lol.
just lol.

 

[Esoteric7]

Why do you have to ask an online forum full of idiots about that decision? Can't you make decisions on your own?

Anyways


This.


Yes, you ghosted them for a reason, so stick with it.




lol.
just lol.

they said my brother may be looking to mog me as a power move. I never anticipated that, so I'm glad I asked

 

[Justdone]

My younger brother messaged me in September that he is getting married in January. He is 5 years younger than me and in his early/mid 20's.

I have not seen any member of my family for 4 years. I ghosted everyone since October, 2019.

I don't want to attend for the following reasons:

1. I'm on bad terms with my parents and I don't want to see them. My mum used to beat me quite badly as a kid, my dad persistently made me feel incompetent and resented me for not being as masculine as him. I also feel angry for how they knowingly sent me to a primary school full of racist animals who were very hostile towards me.

2. I am fat. I weigh 75kg at 5ft'7. I don't want to show up after 4 years as a fatty. I'm struggling to lose weight because there's no incentive and I keep eating goyslop as a form of cope.

3. I am non-NT - social anxiety and very socially awkward. The last thing I want is to attend this wedding and be that quiet, weird, loner guy sitting by himself and no one is talking to him. But that WILL happen because I'm always that guy.

Although my brother did mention that it would be a 'segregated wedding', that I could see him in private and no one will know. I don't know why he said that. I've never told him about my situation. I don't see how I could attend without running into other people.

4. There will be looks of scrutiny and suspicion regarding my single status compared to my younger brother.

5. I will feel extreme ragefuel seeing him get married. Why would I want to see someone celebrating for fulfilling a basic human need that is denied to me? FUCK THAT.

I've made up my mind that I cannot attend. If he texts me I will have to ignore his message, as much as it would pain me to do so. I'm kind of embarrassed he's way ahead of me, and need to figure out what I'm going to do.

I'm also concerned that if I don't attend this will cause irreversible resentment from my younger brother if I decide to reconcile with my family in the future . . .

I also don't want to tell him the truth about my situation because I'd be embarrassed to be perceived in such a manner.

If your brother is open to segregating you from others hee see you as subhuman since he never mentioned race…. That is an insult that shouldn’t sit well with you


If you miss them because they’re family or want to prove them wrong and willing to go at them aggressively go stand up to them

If you dislike them and see the relationship beyond repair ignore them like you plan to do

 

[Esoteric7]

Attend the wedding for the sake of formality and then leave as soon as possible.

would be valid, as I've technically attended

 

[trollingthunder]

Not worth going

 

[Esoteric7]

If your brother is open to segregating you from others hee see you as subhuman since he never mentioned race…. That is an insult that shouldn’t sit well with you


If you miss them because they’re family or want to prove them wrong and willing to go at them aggressively go stand up to them

If you dislike them and see the relationship beyond repair ignore them like you plan to do

yeah I'm wondering why he mentioned i could see him in private. If it's because he'd be ashamed of me then that's suifuel

 

[Siegfried]

You should shoot up the wedding tbh. He KNOWS that you know you’re incel and got the inferior genes handed to you.

Yet he STILL invites you to his wedding so he can rub it in your face. Hes a sadistic fuck and wants to gas light you and mentally torture you. He’s made it clear.

Put a thick 22mm round right through his skull, and then start spraying bullets into the crowd before you take your own life. It’s the only good option

 

[nettle]

hope for you you likely look similar to chadlite over there

 

[BornToLose]

If you drink it might be worth going. If not it would probably be hellish.

But then again I usually avoid family shit either way.

They just don't get it.

 

[Incel Philosopher]

My younger brother by also got married a few years ago. My advice would be attend, just stay for the minimum time that you have to.

5. I will feel extreme ragefuel seeing him get married. Why would I want to see someone celebrating for fulfilling a basic human need that is denied to me? FUCK THAT.

I felt that way as well.

On the other hand, it's good to have "normal" people as relatives. If you think about it, being in a family of incels would be even worse. There may be situations in which your brother may be able to help you or give you credibility.

 

[xkcdCleftcel]

You should shoot up the wedding tbh. He KNOWS that you know you’re incel and got the inferior genes handed to you.

Yet he STILL invites you to his wedding so he can rub it in your face. Hes a sadistic fuck and wants to gas light you and mentally torture you. He’s made it clear.

Put a thick 22mm round right through his skull, and then start spraying bullets into the crowd before you take your own life. It’s the only good option

JFL

 

[Nig nog pilled]

My younger brother messaged me in September that he is getting married in January. He is 5 years younger than me and in his early/mid 20's.

I have not seen any member of my family for 4 years. I ghosted everyone since October, 2019.

I don't want to attend for the following reasons:

1. I'm on bad terms with my parents and I don't want to see them. My mum used to beat me quite badly as a kid, my dad persistently made me feel incompetent and resented me for not being as masculine as him. I also feel angry for how they knowingly sent me to a primary school full of racist animals who were very hostile towards me.

2. I am fat. I weigh 75kg at 5ft'7. I don't want to show up after 4 years as a fatty. I'm struggling to lose weight because there's no incentive and I keep eating goyslop as a form of cope.

3. I am non-NT - social anxiety and very socially awkward. The last thing I want is to attend this wedding and be that quiet, weird, loner guy sitting by himself and no one is talking to him. But that WILL happen because I'm always that guy.

Although my brother did mention that it would be a 'segregated wedding', that I could see him in private and no one will know. I don't know why he said that. I've never told him about my situation. I don't see how I could attend without running into other people.

4. There will be looks of scrutiny and suspicion regarding my single status compared to my younger brother.

5. I will feel extreme ragefuel seeing him get married. Why would I want to see someone celebrating for fulfilling a basic human need that is denied to me? FUCK THAT.

I've made up my mind that I cannot attend. If he texts me I will have to ignore his message, as much as it would pain me to do so. I'm kind of embarrassed he's way ahead of me, and need to figure out what I'm going to do.

I'm also concerned that if I don't attend this will cause irreversible resentment from my younger brother if I decide to reconcile with my family in the future . . .

I also don't want to tell him the truth about my situation because I'd be embarrassed to be perceived in such a manner.

Get over it, hes your brother.

 

[Klouzi]

My mum used to beat me quite badly as a kid

Don’t go to that wedding. Don’t give a shit about them

 

[LifeMaxxer]

He invited you not as a kind gesture

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

Show up a day after or two that's what I do, if he's your brother he will understand, I already cut off half my family and haven't seen them in over two years now, fuck em all the rot is my family and vidya.

 

[Esoteric7]

My younger brother by also got married a few years ago. My advice would be attend, just stay for the minimum time that you have to.


I felt that way as well.

On the other hand, it's good to have "normal" people as relatives. If you think about it, being in a family of incels would be even worse. There may be situations in which your brother may be able to help you or give you credibility.

Didn't people give you looks of suspicious as to why you're not married yet? Or ask you awkward questions

 

[Ahnfeltia]

I'm also concerned that if I don't attend this will cause irreversible resentment from my younger brother if I decide to reconcile with my family in the future . . .

If I was your brother, I wouldn't *hate* you for not coming to my wedding, but maybe I'm the odd one out in that regard. Also, maybe instead of ghosting your brother, you could simply tell him you dislike the kind of gaiety that goes hand in hand with weddings. This is what I'll likely tell my little sister if she ever gets married, because it'd be the primary reason in my case. Just a suggestion.

 

[gymletethnicel]

I am fat. I weigh 75kg at 5ft'7. I don't want to show up after 4 years as a fatty. I'm struggling to lose weight because there's no incentive and I keep eating goyslop as a form of cope.

Not that fat mate.

 

[Overman]

Mogs me for having siblings

very true, take the onlychildpill, if you're an only child you will definitely be socially retarded and completely alone in the world.

 

[ItsovERfucks]

You're a certified cuck if you attend, don't do it

 

[Esoteric7]

If I was your brother, I wouldn't *hate* you for not coming to my wedding, but maybe I'm the odd one out in that regard. Also, maybe instead of ghosting your brother, you could simply tell him you dislike the kind of gaiety that goes hand in hand with weddings. This is what I'll likely tell my little sister if she ever gets married, because it'd be the primary reason in my case. Just a suggestion.

well the wedding day is that one special 'day' that won't happen again. Which is why it will be taken as a big deal

 

[Phosphorus]

He invited you not as a kind gesture, but a power play

 

[shadowmaster]

kill yourself

 

[Linky Love]

Attend the wedding but only if he agrees to make you the best man as well provide you a female escort later for your troubles whom he may or may not have stand up with you in the wedding lineup.

 

[ldarshortcel]

I am fat. I weigh 75kg at 5ft'7. I don't want to show up after 4 years as a fatty. I'm struggling to lose weight because there's no incentive and I keep eating goyslop as a form of cope.

I have 72kg at 5'4 and I don't feel fat.
My frame is ok tho.