Blackpill The reason why it is nearly impossible to make friends during college or university

[Logic55]

@StepyAkermanskie made a good point in one of his posts. He said that almost everyone at college/university has a circle of friends that they text, call, and spend time with outside of campus. In other words, they have personal friends that do not include classmates or acquaintances.

I've been attending college for 2 years, and I haven't made one single friends. It has nothing to do with my looks, I am okay looking. I am outgoing and social, but I still have zero friends. One time, my classmate asked me if I liked chipotle, I said "yes". I then said, "I'm going there after class". He replied, "oh sorry, I'm going to chipotle with a friend". I didnt ask him to go with me to chipotle, i just said that I'm going there too after class. He misunderstood me. Moving on to my next point, tons of my classmates ask for my number and it's not what you think it is, they only call or text me for help on homework or group projects and nothing else. From now on, I will stop replying or ignore text messages from classmates who will use me for hw or other school related work.

When it comes to females, it is nearly impossible to make female friends. If you are sitting next to a female in class, chances are that she has hundreds of guys messaging her on social media. These are some of the reasons why I'm friendless. They all see me as an "acquaintance" or a "classmate" and nothing more than that. Do you guys relate?

 

[NeverHadAChanceTard]

i went to uni and let me tell you something, you have to get a degree where autism/competition is appreciated. then people will flock to you. i had no friends but i had partnerships where people would pay me or give me free drugs for my advice

 

[prajeet88]

Sorry bro but you may not be NT. This just doesn't happen to NT normies on campus, everyone makes friends. If it doesn't "just happen" then there's something wrong with you, which is probs non-NTness.

 

[Logic55]

Sorry bro but you may not be NT. This just doesn't happen to NT normies on campus, everyone makes friends. If it doesn't "just happen" then there's something wrong with you, which is probs non-NTness.

I'm a neurotypical. Literally every single classmate communicates with me either in person or through phone with the intention of using me for homework assistance or some project that they need help with.

 

[prajeet88]

I'm a neurotypical. Literally every single classmate communicates with me either in person or through phone with the intention of using me for homework assistance or some project that they need help with.

I just don't buy it. It should be impossible to not make friends in uni as NT. Unless maybe COVID lockdowns fucked a lot of people up in their formative years and now in uni they are more reclusive.

 

[Logic55]

I just don't buy it. It should be impossible to not make friends in uni as NT. Unless maybe COVID lockdowns fucked a lot of people up in their formative years and now in uni they are more reclusive.

Well, I'm being honest you with you. Failed normies are real, not a myth

 

[StepyAkermanskie]

Damn, you have a problem with that even at the first years of Uni? My sympathies. I was talking mostly from my experience, because I just started a graduate studies (after 3 years of the bachelor studies, in my country there is a two-stage system of studies) and now people don't want to socialise at all, but during this bachelor studies I was actually able to meet some new friends with whom I am still in contact. But from what I was talking with the older graduates of my previous major, their classmates didn't wanted to socialise, just like people now in my graduate studies class, so maybe I was just extremely lucky before

 

[Nick Fuentes]

most people are antisocial this generation

 

[kanyewestisdagoat]

most people are antisocial this generation

yep everyone likes to keep to themselves its especially hard when your ethnic.

 

[zangano1]

I didnt make any friends

 

[Vendetta]

or in life in general

 

[Revocyn]

Truecel trait (but same)

 

[The Darkcel]

Never when to college, but I must say.. this is what I suspected all along and have argued about before that in fact around the time of college, nobody is there to "hang out" or "find their S.O." Most people hang out with their friends outside of school, not within it. HS is really the last time you can really gain social status and with the hopes of obtaining a foid. College is simply a continuation of HS but for "adults", tho... that last point I'd argue most people don't know how to act or be adults in the first place, but whatever... that's neither here or there.

OP is correct. College is merely a segue to adulthood, therefore, no one's there to make friends, let alone relationships (fucking). Everyone's there to get their degree done and over with. Time is money.

 

[Logic55]

Never when to college, but I must say.. this is what I suspected all along and have argued about before that in fact around the time of college, nobody is there to "hang out" or "find their S.O." Most people hang out with their friends outside of school, not within it. HS is really the last time you can really gain social status and with the hopes of obtaining a foid. College is simply a continuation of HS but for "adults", tho... that last point I'd argue most people don't know how to act or be adults in the first place, but whatever... that's neither here or there.

OP is correct. College is merely a segue to adulthood, therefore, no one's there to make friends, let alone relationships (fucking). Everyone's there to get their degree done and over with. Time is money.

Facts

 

[Logic55]

Never when to college, but I must say.. this is what I suspected all along and have argued about before that in fact around the time of college, nobody is there to "hang out" or "find their S.O." Most people hang out with their friends outside of school, not within it. HS is really the last time you can really gain social status and with the hopes of obtaining a foid. College is simply a continuation of HS but for "adults", tho... that last point I'd argue most people don't know how to act or be adults in the first place, but whatever... that's neither here or there.

OP is correct. College is merely a segue to adulthood, therefore, no one's there to make friends, let alone relationships (fucking). Everyone's there to get their degree done and over with. Time is money.

The next time my family asks me why I don't have a girlfriend yet. I'll tell them something similar to this.

 

[go2sleep]

most people are antisocial this generation

Nope.

 

[Logic55]

Nope.

The people at my college are not anti-social, they are only anti-social on campus but they are extroverted outside of campus

 

[go2sleep]

The people at my college are not anti-social, they are only anti-social on campus but they are extroverted outside of campus

True. They are selectively social in the most cynical manner.

 

[Logic55]

True. They are selectively social in the most cynical manner.

Yes, like i said, they have their own social circles

 

[Piratecel]

@StepyAkermanskie made a good point in one of his posts. He said that almost everyone at college/university has a circle of friends that they text, call, and spend time with outside of campus. In other words, they have personal friends that do not include classmates or acquaintances.

I've been attending college for 2 years, and I haven't made one single friends. It has nothing to do with my looks, I am okay looking. I am outgoing and social, but I still have zero friends. One time, my classmate asked me if I liked chipotle, I said "yes". I then said, "I'm going there after class". He replied, "oh sorry, I'm going to chipotle with a friend". I didnt ask him to go with me to chipotle, i just said that I'm going there too after class. He misunderstood me. Moving on to my next point, tons of my classmates ask for my number and it's not what you think it is, they only call or text me for help on homework or group projects and nothing else. From now on, I will stop replying or ignore text messages from classmates who will use me for hw or other school related work.

When it comes to females, it is nearly impossible to make female friends. If you are sitting next to a female in class, chances are that she has hundreds of guys messaging her on social media. These are some of the reasons why I'm friendless. They all see me as an "acquaintance" or a "classmate" and nothing more than that. Do you guys relate?

 

[lifeisfucked215]

When I was in school people avoided me. Idgaf because I'm antisocial anyways. I've always had a hard time making friends, and at this point I don't really care. However there is a new guy who got transferred to my work and he seems cool, we will see if he's friend material

 

[lifeisfucked215]

The last guy who was cool with me was a kid in his teens and he was so redpilled it was fucking hilarious

 

[Logic55]

The last guy who was cool with me was a kid in his teens and he was so redpilled it was fucking hilarious

Redpillers are goofy. They think that combing your hair and wearing nice clothing will get you laid

 

[lifeisfucked215]

Redpillers are goofy. They think that combing your hair and wearing nice clothing will get you laid

He was chadlite so I don't think he will be off too bad. He was telling me he is always getting cheated on. He loved Myron and Andrew Tate. I would try to drop little bits of blackpill to him but nothing too crazy. I haven't heard from him in a year or so now though.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

@StepyAkermanskie made a good point in one of his posts. He said that almost everyone at college/university has a circle of friends that they text, call, and spend time with outside of campus. In other words, they have personal friends that do not include classmates or acquaintances.

I've been attending college for 2 years, and I haven't made one single friends. It has nothing to do with my looks, I am okay looking. I am outgoing and social, but I still have zero friends. One time, my classmate asked me if I liked chipotle, I said "yes". I then said, "I'm going there after class". He replied, "oh sorry, I'm going to chipotle with a friend". I didnt ask him to go with me to chipotle, i just said that I'm going there too after class. He misunderstood me. Moving on to my next point, tons of my classmates ask for my number and it's not what you think it is, they only call or text me for help on homework or group projects and nothing else. From now on, I will stop replying or ignore text messages from classmates who will use me for hw or other school related work.

When it comes to females, it is nearly impossible to make female friends. If you are sitting next to a female in class, chances are that she has hundreds of guys messaging her on social media. These are some of the reasons why I'm friendless. They all see me as an "acquaintance" or a "classmate" and nothing more than that. Do you guys relate?

That’s part of the reason why I’m a misanthrope, I find it so unfair that it’s easy to get hated on and have enemies, but hard or almost so rare to get loved on and have friends this is so unfair how we humans work, I fucking hate people so much I can feel more love from a cat or dog then from a person

 

[Namtriz912]

It's easier in these cases to be antisocial

 

[Logic55]

That’s part of the reason why I’m a misanthrope, I find it so unfair that it’s easy to get hated on and have enemies, but hard or almost so rare to get loved on and have friends this is so unfair how we humans work, I fucking hate people so much I can feel more love from a cat or dog then from a person

Humanity is a flawed and disgusting species

 

[AloneCel2]

Exact same situation here, 3 years and not a single friend made despite working in many groups. After any project the group just splits up and everyone goes back to their friend circles except for me, because I have no one.

 

[Arnocel]

@StepyAkermanskie made a good point in one of his posts. He said that almost everyone at college/university has a circle of friends that they text, call, and spend time with outside of campus. In other words, they have personal friends that do not include classmates or acquaintances.

I've been attending college for 2 years, and I haven't made one single friends. It has nothing to do with my looks, I am okay looking. I am outgoing and social, but I still have zero friends. One time, my classmate asked me if I liked chipotle, I said "yes". I then said, "I'm going there after class". He replied, "oh sorry, I'm going to chipotle with a friend". I didnt ask him to go with me to chipotle, i just said that I'm going there too after class. He misunderstood me. Moving on to my next point, tons of my classmates ask for my number and it's not what you think it is, they only call or text me for help on homework or group projects and nothing else. From now on, I will stop replying or ignore text messages from classmates who will use me for hw or other school related work.

When it comes to females, it is nearly impossible to make female friends. If you are sitting next to a female in class, chances are that she has hundreds of guys messaging her on social media. These are some of the reasons why I'm friendless. They all see me as an "acquaintance" or a "classmate" and nothing more than that. Do you guys relate?

the last thing im worrying about right now is making friends or a girlfriend, cause
A) no shit im gonna fail again
B) i cant get off track of anything, i have to keep up with my shit
no use in wasting my time in something that i know i will fail at.

 

[Logic55]

Exact same situation here, 3 years and not a single friend made despite working in many groups. After any project the group just splits up and everyone goes back to their friend circles except for me, because I have no one.

I understand how you feel

 

[faded]

Sorry bro but you may not be NT. This just doesn't happen to NT normies on campus, everyone makes friends. If it doesn't "just happen" then there's something wrong with you, which is probs non-NTness.

i went to uni and let me tell you something, you have to get a degree where autism/competition is appreciated. then people will flock to you. i had no friends but i had partnerships where people would pay me or give me free drugs for my advice

kys fake cel

 

[Johnhatenigger12]

I didnt make any friends

 

[Raider919]

The last guy who was cool with me was a kid in his teens and he was so redpilled it was fucking hilarious

dude the friends i had as kids were all drug heads that may be in jail rn or dead

 

[lifeisfucked215]

dude the friends i had as kids were all drug heads that may be in jail rn or dead

One of my friends in highschool is looking at 10 years in prison rn and my other friend drunk himself to death. All the other ones have been in and out jail for DUIs and possession of drugs n shit. I like seeing them but also glad I moved far far away

 

[Raider919]

One of my friends in highschool is looking at 10 years in prison rn and my other friend drunk himself to death. All the other ones have been in and out jail for DUIs and possession of drugs n shit. I like seeing them but also glad I moved far far away

i ahd a friend get nabbed for a 1st time offense selling weed and he posted about it on yt years ago and his channel is down now. it's pathetic. it's like he hit puberty and turned into a latent inmate

 

[Thaway]

cus u ugly

 

[Friezacel]

You didnt answer the why so i will tell you: you are either giga ugly truecel or non NT

 

[Logic55]

You didnt answer the why so i will tell you: you are either giga ugly truecel or non NT

I'm okay looking, and I have decent social skills. Everybody at college wants to use me for homework or project work, they don't see me as a friend

 

[Friezacel]

I'm okay looking, and I have decent social skills. Everybody at college wants to use me for homework or project work, they don't see me as a friend

Your social skills arent as good as you think they are, otherwise you would already have a social circle

 

[Logic55]

Your social skills arent as good as you think they are, otherwise you would already have a social circle

That's bs. I am a normal person, and I just don't appeal to anyone .

 

[Friezacel]

That's bs. I am a normal person, and I just don't appeal to anyone .

Cope. I know plenty of manlets and ugly mfers having a normal social circle simply because they were NT. The non NT ones like me are invisible

 

[Logic55]

Cope. I know plenty of manlets and ugly mfers having a normal social circle simply because they were NT. The non NT ones like me are invisible

It's not a cope. Not all normal NTs have the ability form social circles. You are making a false generalization. 99% of people in college are there to study and attend classes not to make make friends because they already have social circles.

 

[GhostRick02]

If you are a neurotypical normie, you may be introvert but sometimes you should get in a relationship at least

 

[lifefuel]

1. You're not Chad.

The end

 

[Autistic Uggo]

It's extremely difficult to make friends after high school. People will already have established friendship circles, and they're typically not very receptive to new members. They may make exceptions for attractive and popular people, but an ugly sperg will have no chance.

 

[Logic55]

If you are a neurotypical normie, you may be introvert but sometimes you should get in a relationship at least

Not all normie males have opportunities to be in a relationship. Being a normie is not what you think it is. Failed normies do exist.

 

[Logic55]

It's extremely difficult to make friends after high school. People will already have established friendship circles, and they're typically not very receptive to new members. They may make exceptions for attractive and popular people, but an ugly sperg will have no chance.

That's my point, but other users on here keep telling me that its easy to make new friends in college, thats bullshit.

 

[PhilipBlake]

It's extremely difficult to make friends after high school. People will already have established friendship circles, and they're typically not very receptive to new members. They may make exceptions for attractive and popular people, but an ugly sperg will have no chance.

 

[GhostRick02]

Not all normie males have opportunities to be in a relationship. Being a normie is not what you think it is. Failed normies do exist.

yes they exist I Know
but If they aren't autistic they have the potential, that's what I'm saying

 

[Izayacel]

B b but its your pERsoNality bRoOo .

Fuck this world sometimes .