Deleted member 7448
Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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In the past communities were tighter. People would know the people around them, unless you were a monster you'd have a pretty wide social circle.
But times have changed so now it's so hard to have a social circle if you've missed the boat. If you were shy or something in college/school. As an adult you're fucked if you don't already have a well-established social circle.
There should be a fucking system in place for this kind of shit. There should be a system in place for people to meet others and for it to not be weird and cringy like cold approaching. So a guy like me could just go to some 3/10 woman and try to start a conversation with her. And if she doesn't seem interested, onto the next one. Till I fucking get a girlfriend. But irl I can't do fucking shit. Literally can't do jack shit as an adult, especially in this shithole country with limited options where nothing ever happens cause people just hang out with people they already know. Can't even cold approach or tinder or shit like that in this shithole, but those weren't options for a bald and nerdy glasses wearer like me anyway. Can't even go to hobby club or whatever cause only kinds that exist around here are language courses and shit like that, and you bet your ass nobody there is paying good money to try and make friends or some shit, they're there to learn and then they go back to their busy lives.
But times have changed so now it's so hard to have a social circle if you've missed the boat. If you were shy or something in college/school. As an adult you're fucked if you don't already have a well-established social circle.
There should be a fucking system in place for this kind of shit. There should be a system in place for people to meet others and for it to not be weird and cringy like cold approaching. So a guy like me could just go to some 3/10 woman and try to start a conversation with her. And if she doesn't seem interested, onto the next one. Till I fucking get a girlfriend. But irl I can't do fucking shit. Literally can't do jack shit as an adult, especially in this shithole country with limited options where nothing ever happens cause people just hang out with people they already know. Can't even cold approach or tinder or shit like that in this shithole, but those weren't options for a bald and nerdy glasses wearer like me anyway. Can't even go to hobby club or whatever cause only kinds that exist around here are language courses and shit like that, and you bet your ass nobody there is paying good money to try and make friends or some shit, they're there to learn and then they go back to their busy lives.
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