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Discussion Trucel trait: you had no real, good father figure

Efiliste

Efiliste

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In this stupid soyciety, fathers are shamed to death. Most of them are shit fathers anyway, they can't teach you about being and becoming a man. It's natural you turn to someone else to become a father figure for you. Who else experienced this ?
 
Mine was a jock, now leftist coward, passive-aggressive piece of shit with strenght, and FULLY JABBED.
 
Modern normie men are weak.
 
Yeah. My father was super controlling, and a lot of his decisions were utterly baffling, such as telling my sister and I when on summer vacation, "If I can't go to the beach two straight days, neither can you!" I actually hated the weekends as I would have to be around him and he would make me help him with his endless backyard projects. My mom constantly screamed at him for his affair, which he foolishly confessed to unforced, and he probably tried to control my sister and I to maintain some semblance of self respect.
 
Yeah. My father was super controlling, and a lot of his decisions were utterly baffling, such as telling my sister and I when on summer vacation, "If I can't go to the beach two straight days, neither can you!" I actually hated the weekends as I would have to be around him and he would make me help him with his endless backyard projects. My mom constantly screamed at him for his affair, which he foolishly confessed to unforced, and he probably tried to control my sister and I to maintain some semblance of self respect.
Sorry that happened to you, brocel. Hope you can heal from it.
 
Mine beat the shit outta me
 
Sorry that happened to you, brocel. Hope you can heal from it.
Thank you. I am starting to acknowledge that my childhood qualifies as trauma and trying to move past it. I honestly think that my mother is a major reason why I have had such difficulty approaching women.

What my father did was clearly "bad." And my mother punished the crap out of him. So, I do not want to risk being "bad," as I fear that women will punish me.
 
guys raised without a father often end up either pushover or some scumbag criminal because when he did bad deeds in childhood mother didn't punish him well so they develop an impunity
 
guys raised without a father often end up either pushover or some scumbag criminal because when he did bad deeds in childhood mother didn't punish him well so they develop an impunity
or they try to find other father figures
 
Yes. My father always shamed me for not being man enough yet he obeys my mom like a dog
 
My dad traveled a lot when I was younger, so I didnt get to see him too much: He also is partly why I have anger issues, and I inherited my substance-abuse genes from him.
 
My father was not present in my upbringing
 
My father died at 12, so.. I was definitely confused for the longest time. My mom only made it worse when she became a fag and had females over that she called her "friends" even tho she didn't have any... except her backstabbing feminazi single-mother cuntbags. She even said to me once "I can be your father too" when i was once crying over my dad's passing (this was elementary school years btw). My mom was a cunt, glad she's dead.
 
I wish I had a better relationship with my father. We're both so different that it's kind of hard to connect in any way.
 
everyone of the males in my life were retarded pos assholes.
 
My dad raised me to be a low status, autistic nERd losER


He didn’t care about whethER I was good at sport
He didn’t care about whethER I had friends/was popular/had decent social status
he didn’t care about whethER the opposite sex found me attractive (whethER girls liked me)
he didn’t care about whethER I was bullied

All he cared about was whethER I got good grades. I feel like I wasn’t even seen by him as a human with emotions or any natural desires (sex, socialisation etc).

He just saw me as a mindless robot whose value came from its level of achievement.

Ironically, The emotional neglect from my fathER is a major reason why I ended up being a 26 year old adult who achieved nothing, maybe this is the univERse’s cruel way of making my dad realise the mistakes in his parenting
 
Best I had was my stepdad. He overdosed not too long ago. Took me to the gym, whole nine yards. My mom knew him from before I was born I think, my bio dad died before I was born. Apart from him, I've literally only ever been around foids.
 
No shit Sherlock. We didn’t have good father figures, big surprise there. I could have told you that myself.
 
No shit Sherlock. We didn’t have good father figures, big surprise there. I could have told you that myself.
niggER, some people had good childhoods here
 
In this stupid soyciety, fathers are shamed to death. Most of them are shit fathers anyway, they can't teach you about being and becoming a man. It's natural you turn to someone else to become a father figure for you. Who else experienced this ?
My bio dad is great and I appreciate him. My stepdad is a stupid nigger and deserves to die.
 
My bio dad is great and I appreciate him. My stepdad is a stupid nigger and deserves to die.
I knew someone who was frequently beat by his dad and his step-dad
 

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