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I'm 21, and only been on 1 date before. I'm religious, so I'm technically a volcel. No one would claim I'm ugly, but women just aren't interested in me.
There are a few main reasons.
1. I have a boyish face. People think I'm younger than I am.
2. I'm bad at interacting with women. Particularly, I think traditional women expect certain things I don't get. Like bringing flowers and asking them to dance. I think my severe pornography addiction is hurting me here. It's difficult to understand romance when no woman has ever really loved you and your only experience is a decade of hardcore porn.
3. The biggest part of it is going to a very liberal college. I'm extroverted (by choice) and pretty popular with guys at my Uni, but I'm a bit of a black sheep among women for my public opposition to the most egregious progressive stuff. I used to think this was just a good filter, but I think growing up in a very male environment, I overestimated foids. Most women at my Uni polled saying they would end a friendship over political views (the men overwhelmingly did not).
Don't get me wrong, there are women of character if you look at church, but all the single ones I'm friends with already rejected me (or are morbidly obese or had a thing with close friends/family).
I could ask start asking women I don't know well next semester, or I could just wait a few years.
1. will resolve itself. I almost have hollow cheeks my bodyfat % is so low. There's not much I can do but wait.
2. Is a bit of an issue, but I'm not like most of you guys. People at work think I'm normal.
3. Will I be better off meeting people in a big city? Idk
I really want to shake my pornography addiction. If I can do that. 5 years from now I think I could be really eligible. I would be attractive (I'm 6'0", good jaw, etc.) I could own a home. I just worry that I'll fall further behind socially.
People will be able to tell I'm 26 and haven't held hands with a girl.
Also, partially a result of the pornography, but I think about sex constantly. I masturbate close to 20 times a week if I don't seriously try not to. I wish I could just be asexual or have a low libido for a few years.
I would just wait if I could stop thinking about women.
What do you guys think about waiting? Will you be more or less eligible in 5 years?
There are a few main reasons.
1. I have a boyish face. People think I'm younger than I am.
2. I'm bad at interacting with women. Particularly, I think traditional women expect certain things I don't get. Like bringing flowers and asking them to dance. I think my severe pornography addiction is hurting me here. It's difficult to understand romance when no woman has ever really loved you and your only experience is a decade of hardcore porn.
3. The biggest part of it is going to a very liberal college. I'm extroverted (by choice) and pretty popular with guys at my Uni, but I'm a bit of a black sheep among women for my public opposition to the most egregious progressive stuff. I used to think this was just a good filter, but I think growing up in a very male environment, I overestimated foids. Most women at my Uni polled saying they would end a friendship over political views (the men overwhelmingly did not).
Don't get me wrong, there are women of character if you look at church, but all the single ones I'm friends with already rejected me (or are morbidly obese or had a thing with close friends/family).
I could ask start asking women I don't know well next semester, or I could just wait a few years.
1. will resolve itself. I almost have hollow cheeks my bodyfat % is so low. There's not much I can do but wait.
2. Is a bit of an issue, but I'm not like most of you guys. People at work think I'm normal.
3. Will I be better off meeting people in a big city? Idk
I really want to shake my pornography addiction. If I can do that. 5 years from now I think I could be really eligible. I would be attractive (I'm 6'0", good jaw, etc.) I could own a home. I just worry that I'll fall further behind socially.
People will be able to tell I'm 26 and haven't held hands with a girl.
Also, partially a result of the pornography, but I think about sex constantly. I masturbate close to 20 times a week if I don't seriously try not to. I wish I could just be asexual or have a low libido for a few years.
I would just wait if I could stop thinking about women.
What do you guys think about waiting? Will you be more or less eligible in 5 years?
