Selinity
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Y'know, a lot of people talk about how they're going to do all of these looksmaxxing and gym stuff in hopes of increasing their smv. Some guys put themselves through quite a lot in an attempt to looksmaxx. Even myself I do some light-core looksmaxxing, I genuinely beleived that if I was more attractive I would have no problem entering the realationship.
But then I thought 'what about long term?' Could I ever keep a foid interested in me for a year? A month? A week even? If I were to ascend right now how long would it be before the relationship ends?
It wouldn't be long.
Relationships work only when both parties benefit-- it's a give and take thing, But while a foid has so much to offer me (Sex, validation, social status, compangionship), what do I have to offer to a foid? Do I have anything going on for me that would make the relationship worthwhile? I don't have any social circles, I don't have the type of life style that a female would gladly take part in.
I'd never be able to invite her to anything, or to take her on fun dates doing things that are exciting or fun. You can assess yourself too-- do you have the type of life anyone would join you in? What could you offer to a foid?
Nothing. I can't offer a foid anything, my life doesn't even have a social context, I've done most of my socializing on this forum. I talk to more people on .co than irl. That's so sad. I live a mundane life, each day is the same, you probably do to, even pre-corona.
You could say 'it's just your looks that are holding you down,' but I'm afraid that's a pretty low-iq statement, and one that I used to make quite a bit. Even if I was better looking I'd still be awkward and shy. I'd still be shit at comversation face-to-face, I'd be unable to have any meaningful social life.
And to those LOOKS LOOKS LOOKS people who say that people won't care, how many good looking people that AREN'T living mundane lives with friends and a fulfilling social life are there?
A foid has no reason to stay with me. A women will never be attracted enough to stay with me. I just want some friends in real life, I just want this solitude to end. This inceldom would be a lot less painful with some bros to back me up.
Does a foid have any reason to be with you? Would you be able to join a friend group if looks weren't important? Be honest. Yes, looks are 110% important but they aren't the only thing that holds me down.
But then I thought 'what about long term?' Could I ever keep a foid interested in me for a year? A month? A week even? If I were to ascend right now how long would it be before the relationship ends?
It wouldn't be long.
Relationships work only when both parties benefit-- it's a give and take thing, But while a foid has so much to offer me (Sex, validation, social status, compangionship), what do I have to offer to a foid? Do I have anything going on for me that would make the relationship worthwhile? I don't have any social circles, I don't have the type of life style that a female would gladly take part in.
I'd never be able to invite her to anything, or to take her on fun dates doing things that are exciting or fun. You can assess yourself too-- do you have the type of life anyone would join you in? What could you offer to a foid?
Nothing. I can't offer a foid anything, my life doesn't even have a social context, I've done most of my socializing on this forum. I talk to more people on .co than irl. That's so sad. I live a mundane life, each day is the same, you probably do to, even pre-corona.
You could say 'it's just your looks that are holding you down,' but I'm afraid that's a pretty low-iq statement, and one that I used to make quite a bit. Even if I was better looking I'd still be awkward and shy. I'd still be shit at comversation face-to-face, I'd be unable to have any meaningful social life.
And to those LOOKS LOOKS LOOKS people who say that people won't care, how many good looking people that AREN'T living mundane lives with friends and a fulfilling social life are there?
A foid has no reason to stay with me. A women will never be attracted enough to stay with me. I just want some friends in real life, I just want this solitude to end. This inceldom would be a lot less painful with some bros to back me up.
Does a foid have any reason to be with you? Would you be able to join a friend group if looks weren't important? Be honest. Yes, looks are 110% important but they aren't the only thing that holds me down.