Teutonic Knight
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I looked back at some of my older pictures knowing what I know now about looks and I don't think I was that ugly when I was younger. While I'm obviously nowhere near Chad, I think I was even slightly above average (for the area I come from) when I was at my best around 27 or 28 years old (I'm 30 now).
For all of you that think I'm a fakecel or something, I don't think you realize just how hard it is to be non-NT in Eastern Europe. It fucks up your youth entirely and you can't have a normal social circle. You need to be really good looking if you want to overcome that and sub8 theory is definitely true in this case. I'm definitely not 8/10 so looks are still a problem too.
I only found out about autismpill and how it destroys your dating life at this site. I never really thought about it much before and I only got diagnosed late. I thought that as long as I'm confident it should be ok, but being confident and lowinhib when you're autistic just makes you look weird and eccentric and you eventually get bored with interactions with other people because you never get anything out of them.
I think things would actually be better for me if online dating was big when I was younger because then I could just looksmaxx and autism wouldn't show immediately, but I never tried it because it wasn't so popular back then and I was already like 24 when Tinder came out. Now it's getting a bit too late, years of isolation made me hesitant to try to build relationships with new people. Also women are more demanding with age, or they're just looking for a betabuxxer which I'm not interested in. If you miss out on relationships in your teens and early 20s you're kind of relegated to "second division" and you need a lot to overcome that.
Also being a non-NT aspie is not something you can control. You're born with that and you can't change it. It's really bad for dating life because one of the important things when knowing women is eye contact and aspies simply suck at that. I just can't establish normal eye contact with people, either I stare at them like we're having an MMA staredown or look around like I'm not interested in them which probably looks arrogant or weird. So this is pretty much a death sentence if you're a sub8.
I know a lot of people here shit on mentalcels but if you had some condition on autism spectrum you would understand. The way that people interact with NT normies just looks so different. It's like another world.
For all of you that think I'm a fakecel or something, I don't think you realize just how hard it is to be non-NT in Eastern Europe. It fucks up your youth entirely and you can't have a normal social circle. You need to be really good looking if you want to overcome that and sub8 theory is definitely true in this case. I'm definitely not 8/10 so looks are still a problem too.
I only found out about autismpill and how it destroys your dating life at this site. I never really thought about it much before and I only got diagnosed late. I thought that as long as I'm confident it should be ok, but being confident and lowinhib when you're autistic just makes you look weird and eccentric and you eventually get bored with interactions with other people because you never get anything out of them.
I think things would actually be better for me if online dating was big when I was younger because then I could just looksmaxx and autism wouldn't show immediately, but I never tried it because it wasn't so popular back then and I was already like 24 when Tinder came out. Now it's getting a bit too late, years of isolation made me hesitant to try to build relationships with new people. Also women are more demanding with age, or they're just looking for a betabuxxer which I'm not interested in. If you miss out on relationships in your teens and early 20s you're kind of relegated to "second division" and you need a lot to overcome that.
Also being a non-NT aspie is not something you can control. You're born with that and you can't change it. It's really bad for dating life because one of the important things when knowing women is eye contact and aspies simply suck at that. I just can't establish normal eye contact with people, either I stare at them like we're having an MMA staredown or look around like I'm not interested in them which probably looks arrogant or weird. So this is pretty much a death sentence if you're a sub8.
I know a lot of people here shit on mentalcels but if you had some condition on autism spectrum you would understand. The way that people interact with NT normies just looks so different. It's like another world.