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Unfortunately I don't have screencaps ATM, but I've seen a couple of times in the last few months some right-wingers/MRA (men's rights activists)/MGTOWers claiming that the growing celibacy of young males (aka the rise of Incels) is a direct result of the rise of third wave feminism, where any kind of typical male behavior (being flirty) is considered a sexual harassment, #metoo and such, that makes men too afraid to even make eye contact with women, even less approaching. While this isn't an entirely incorrect statement, they often completely disregard lookism and they miss the point of how hypergamy really works. They don't consider that a minority of men (Chads) are getting more sex than ever before, despite the way feminism "oppresses" "alpha" "cis-males". They don't consider that most women live on the Tutorial mode regarding sex, that nowadays any average female can get set up a date (for sex) with one of the top 20% of males within minutes on Tinder and similar dating apps.

The feminist movement is one huge Cope for females, most of the participants are either landwhales/ugly foids that are upset that Chads aren't into them (so they develop a hatred agains all men, despite their perception of masculinity corresponds to a minority of men) or dykes who got frustrated over men because their "personality detector" only "worked" for high T dudes (who turned out to be jerks), so every straight male must be evil and "women objectifiers", right?

But that isn't the point; While many normie men are indeed afraid of approaching women these days out of the fear of being called a rapist, Chads and Chadlites are still getting sex like ever before; It's not just that men are approaching less, it's ALSO that women are getting more and more demanding and picky about men, as a direct result of media worshiping, WAW halo, and the growth of Lookist social media platforms like Instagram and dating apps.

The comic below accurately portrays how feminism really works for many women.

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Someone should edit that comic with rightwing foids berating polcucks to then pan to them oggling a Tyrone
 
Who made women free to be whores in the first place?
 
Someone should edit that comic with rightwing foids berating polcucks to then pan to them oggling a Tyrone
Literally every interracial porn comic does that. It's nothing new.
 
Who made women free to be whores in the first place?
My point is, if women are "massive whores" and "sexually liberated" these days, then why we are here? Why we are still being rejected, and not getting sex?
 
Why we are still being rejected, and not getting sex?
Because when women are free from enforced monogamy they flock to Chads and create barbaric harem societies.
 
My point is, if women are "massive whores" and "sexually liberated" these days, then why we are here? Why we are still being rejected, and not getting sex?
Foids are like parasites , they want social status for have a handsome boyfriend "hey look stacy is with chad, what a lucky girl, I envy her"
if the foid is with an ugly guy" hahaha what an ugly couple, I don't envy her". They need to parasite and gain something more than the guy that stay with her.
 
Because when women are free from enforced monogamy they flock to Chads and create barbaric harem societies.
Women haven't been forced to anything since like a century ago, lol.

The difference is that promiscuity was discouraged and we didn't have a strong social media we have with the internet nowadays, so many of them settled down with the first "nice guy" or betabux they could find, but thanks to the Internet and social media they now know they have way more options.
My mother was a Stacey in her prime, but still dated my father who is an ugly manlet (and I was unfortunate to take after his shitty genes in the genetic lottery). This was like, in the early 80s.

I don't think that feminism is 100% responsible for the "whore culture", mind you, but I agree that women are being encouraged to not feel guilty at all for having sex with lots of men, which made things worse. We had the Internet going on as far as the late 80s and becoming mainstream in the mid-90s, but women still weren't as shallow looking exclusively for Chads like these days.

I don't fucking kid you, years ago, I had a mentalcel friend who lost his khhv-ness because a foid randomly hit him up on Facebook asking him for a date. He is normie tier facially, but is over 6'4'' tall with a great frame (he is a good case for Height>Face theorists, which I usually don't agree overall). From what another friend told me, he is now a slayer these days, especially because he is living in the North of Brazil, and can get Tinder matches really easily, perhaps you can play the JBW/JBT(just be tall) game there.
 
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Women haven't been forced to anything since like a century ago, lol.

The difference is that promiscuity was discouraged and we didn't have a strong social media we have with the internet nowadays, so many of them settled down with the first "nice guy" or betabux they could find, but thanks to the Internet and social media they know they have way more options.
My mother was a Stacey in her prime, but still dated my father who is an ugly manlet (and I was unfortunate to take after his shitty genes in the genetic lottery). This was like, in the early 80s.

I don't think that feminism is 100% responsible for the "whore culture", mind you, but I agree that women are being encouraged to not feel guilty at all for having sex with lots of men, which made things worse. We had the Internet going on as far as the late 80s and becoming mainstream in the mid-90s, but women still weren't as shallow looking exclusively for Chads like these days.

I don't fucking kid you, years ago, I had a mentalcel friend who lost his khhv-ness because a foid randomly hit him up on Facebook asking him for a date. He is normie tier facially, but is over 6'4'' tall with a great frame (he is a good case for Height>Face theorists, which I usually don't agree overall). From what another friend told me, he is now a slayer these days, especially because he is living in the North of Brazil, and can get Tinder matches really easily, perhaps you can play the JBW/JBT(just be tall) game there.
The abandonment of traditionalism is just as responsible for our inceldom as social media and dating apps tbh, if not more. Sure it wasn't nearly as bad for ugly men a couple of decades ago, but that doesn't mean that things weren't progressively declining(the forces pushing promiscuity are mostly the same as those which caused the sexual revolution). The problem with mostly blaming technology alone is that this thinking largely misses the point.

Modern communication technology facilitates degeneracy, but doesn't truly cause it. While it may be a moot point, do you think that garbage like Tinder would exist if the technology was there, but we had the social standards of the west during the late 19th century?
 
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The abandonment of traditionalism is just as responsible for our inceldom as social media and dating apps tbh, if not more. Sure it wasn't nearly as bad for ugly men a couple of decades ago, but that doesn't mean that things weren't progressively declining(the forces pushing promiscuity are mostly the same as those which caused the sexual revolution). The problem with mostly blaming technology alone is that this thinking largely misses the point.

Modern communication technology facilitates degeneracy, but doesn't truly cause it. While it may be a moot point, do you think that garbage like Tinder would exist if the technology was there, but we had the social standards of the west during the late 19th century?
I did agree on that on the post. Technology, Internet and software/platforms are just tools. It's the "combo" of things that fucked things up.

My point is that feminism is just a fraction of the degeneracy that is going on. It's basically a culmination of a pre-existing mindset.
 
Because when women are free from enforced monogamy they flock to Chads and create barbaric harem societies.
Canadian women would call the cops on a sub8 male for stare harassment, but she would defend a Tyrone pimp who raped her.
 
I am sorry OP but you do realize that it literally is feminism 100%, it enambles lookism
 
And why are chads the ones getting sex? Because Feminism gave full power to women. Prior to that, it was the woman’s family who chose her husband. And before that, women were just taken by any man strong or clever enough to force sex on her.
 
I am sorry OP but you do realize that it literally is feminism 100%, it enambles lookism
Your point is defeated the moment you realize there are more non-feminist women who are hypergamic than active feminists.
Many women don't give a fuck about "sexual harassment"/"rape culture"/"female empowerment" but would still reject sub7 men who dared to approach them, because they know they are not short on options.
Lookism is ingrained in foids regardless of political positions, it actually overlaps any of it.

And why are chads the ones getting sex? Because Feminism gave full power to women. Prior to that, it was the woman’s family who chose her husband. And before that, women were just taken by any man strong or clever enough to force sex on her.

Chads are getting sex because they have an easier time than ever to find foids to fuck. It has nothing to do with feminism, many Chads don't even like feminist foids. You are also are ignoring TradCon foids who despise feminism and aren't completely degenerate, but still lust for Chad's cock or go after the Betabux.
 
Chads are getting sex because they have an easier time than ever to find foids to fuck. It has nothing to do with feminism, many Chads don't even like feminist foids. You are also are ignoring TradCon foids who despise feminism and aren't completely degenerate, but still lust for Chad's cock or go after the Betabux.


Again, what gave women the right to choose Chad in the first place? Think this through.
 
Again, what gave women the right to choose Chad in the first place? Think this through.
Chads who don't exclusively date/fuck their looksmatch are big enablers of hypergamy.
If some foids were sure they had no chance to get Chad's attention, then they wouldn't go after Chads exclusively.
 
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Tons of those ugly feminists have beta orbiters regardless of their unkept, brittle, dyed hair and stds.
 
Chads who don't exclusively date/fuck their looksmatch are great enablers of hypergamy.

Then why aren’t the women punished for being hypergamous? You cannot just blame this all on Chads.
 
Then why aren’t the women punished for being hypergamous? You cannot just blame this all on Chads.
I was editing the post by the time you posted, adding that "If some foids were sure they had no chance to get Chad's attention, then they wouldn't go after Chads exclusively."

It's simple, they aren't being "punished" for it because they are being rewarded for it... By Chads. Maybe you can blame the fact that some Chads aren't able to date their Stacey looksmatch because Stacies have massive standards , so those Chads are forced to date down and that enables average beckies to date up.
 
I was editing the post by the time you posted, adding that "If some foids were sure they had no chance to get Chad's attention, then they wouldn't go after Chads exclusively."

It's simple, they aren't being "punished" for it because they are being rewarded for it... By Chads. Maybe you can blame the fact that some Chads aren't able to date their Stacey looksmatch because Stacies have massive standards , so those Chads are forced to date down and that enables average beckies to date up.


I’m aware they aren’t being punished for it. All of what you say is true, but you’re ignoring one crucial thing.



The entire modern dating system is a result of feminism granting power to women and allowing them to pick and choose their men with freedom, and then dump these men when they’re no longer useful. In a culture where the family decides who the woman marries for the rest of her life, hypergamy simply does not exist. Because if she pursues chad or allows herself to fall for Chad while faltering on her oath, she’ll be punished with loss of status and possibly even something more physical.
 
I’m aware they aren’t being punished for it. All of what you say is true, but you’re ignoring one crucial thing.



The entire modern dating system is a result of feminism granting power to women and allowing them to pick and choose their men with freedom, and then dump these men when they’re no longer useful. In a culture where the family decides who the woman marries for the rest of her life, hypergamy simply does not exist. Because if she pursues chad or allows herself to fall for Chad while faltering on her oath, she’ll be punished with loss of status and possibly even something more physical.
I understand your point and the points of others in this thread. While I can agree that traditionalism and arranged marriage could prevent Inceldom, I'm using a nonutopian and less idealistic perspective here (stepping back from granted "rights" is pretty much impossible as much as fashcels want). If in the current dating system Chads stopped giving validation to average females or stopped dating down overnight, it would also help to prevent hypergamy, but yeah, they shouldn't be blamed for it entirely.
I think that men should react and shame/bash/destroy anything that promotes the idea that women should never feel guilty for being whores or that they "need to explore their sexuality". And men should promote that yes, non-chads also have their worth, that females are THE major lookists in today's society (the media still tries to spread the Bluepilled idea that men, not women, are the "visual" ones) .
 
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I understand your point and the points of others in this thread. While I can agree that traditionalism and arranged marriage could prevent Inceldom, I'm using a nonutopian and less idealistic perspective here (stepping back from granted "rights" is pretty much impossible as much as fashcels want). If in the current dating system Chads stopped giving validation to average females or stopped dating down overnight, it would also help to prevent hypergamy, but yeah, they shouldn't be blamed for it entirely.
I think that men should react and shame/bash/destroy anything that promotes the idea that women should never feel guilty for being whores or that they "need to explore their sexuality". And men should promote that yes, non-chads also have their worth, that females are THE major lookists in today's society (the media still tries to spread the Bluepilled idea that men, not women, are the "visual" ones) .


I agree on these points, but your original post made it sound like you were saying Feminism had little to do with the current dating system. At least as I interpreted it. I used the utopian example to illustrate my point.
 
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I agree on these points, but your original post made it sound like you were saying Feminism had little to do with the current dating system. At least as I interpreted it.
Well, I indeed think that feminism has little to do with the current rampant hypergamy . You guys are implying that most foids who aim for the top men are all feminists or under some influence of feminism, which simply isn't true, many actually don't give a single fuck about activism and politics.
 
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i hate trad cucks just as much as regular cucks spouting bs like "If you dont provide for your woman, youre not a REAL man". They wanna give the easy work to foids which is simply raising kids which they screw up at as well.
 
i hate trad cucks just as much as regular cucks spouting bs like "If you dont provide for your woman, youre not a REAL man". They wanna give the easy work to foids which is simply raising kids which they screw up at as well.
In an idealistic world where looks didn't matter, they (TradCucks) could actually be right.
The thing is: we live in a world were the Meekspill is real. Were a man can be actually provided by a woman simply because he is attractive/has good genes. We live in a world were we see countless cases of cucked men (who were providers!) deciding to go MGTOW after being cheated and divorceraped. We also live in a world were women actively want to work and to provide for their family, that's a good thing, but clashes with the typical TradCon view since women aren't as dependent on their husbands anymore.
 
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Unfortunately I don't have screencaps ATM, but I've seen a couple of times in the last few months some right-wingers/MRA (men's rights activists)/MGTOWers claiming that the growing celibacy of young males (aka the rise of Incels) is a direct result of the rise of third wave feminism, where any kind of typical male behavior (being flirty) is considered a sexual harassment, #metoo and such, that makes men too afraid to even make eye contact with women, even less approaching. While this isn't an entirely incorrect statement, they often completely disregard lookism and they miss the point of how hypergamy really works. They don't consider that a minority of men (Chads) are getting more sex than ever before, despite the way feminism "oppresses" "alpha" "cis-males". They don't consider that most women live on the Tutorial mode regarding sex, that nowadays any average female can get set up a date (for sex) with one of the top 20% of males within minutes on Tinder and similar dating apps.

The feminist movement is one huge Cope for females, most of the participants are either landwhales/ugly foids that are upset that Chads aren't into them (so they develop a hatred agains all men, despite their perception of masculinity corresponds to a minority of men) or dykes who got frustrated over men because their "personality detector" only "worked" for high T dudes (who turned out to be jerks), so every straight male must be evil and "women objectifiers", right?

But that isn't the point; While many normie men are indeed afraid of approaching women these days out of the fear of being called a rapist, Chads and Chadlites are still getting sex like ever before; It's not just that men are approaching less, it's ALSO that women are getting more and more demanding and picky about men, as a direct result of media worshiping, WAW halo, and the growth of Lookist social media platforms like Instagram and dating apps.

The comic below accurately portrays how feminism really works for many women.

View attachment 108385

In a sense it really is just feminism causing all of this, because its feminism that was utilized to "liberate" women (give them rights, privileges, ability to work, ability to own property, etc)

Without feminism the patriarchy would be in full effect right now and we'd all probably be married already
 
In a sense it really is just feminism causing all of this, because its feminism that was utilized to "liberate" women (give them rights, privileges, ability to work, ability to own property, etc)

Without feminism the patriarchy would be in full effect right now and we'd all probably be married already
I'm specifically talking about the third wave feminism.
But even at time times the earlier feminist waves "blew" , there was no such a problem as Hypergamy. Average men and even sub5 men could still get laid often and date their looksmatch (and sometimes even above) normally. Even feminists themselves back then weren't nearly as degenerate, they didn't talk about abortion, their bodies, sex or masturbation all the time and didn't strip naked for "protesting", and didn't imply that getting approached by sub7 men was equal to Rape.
 
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