(If you don't wanna read that wall of text or you have a short attention span, just jump straight to the TL;DR, I've resumed everything there, although I'd recommend reading the whole thing, as it's a brutal blackpill.)
Well, I've been away from this forum for a while, only logging in occasionally to read half a dozen posts while I listen to Incel News, so I'm coming back with a controversial post about ascension. Well, I've been working towards ascension for a long time, and now I feel that I am getting pretty close to it, people don't treat me like shit anymore, and they don't get a bad first impression from me, I have a decent social circle and making friends and acquaintances is surprisingly easy now. I've always idealized what was waiting for me "on the other side of the coin", and I honestly thought it would be amazing to have casual sex, relationships and emotional connections like I believed it would happen. I'm not going to lie, the social aspect of ascension is pretty sweet, but I have always looked forward the relationship aspect of it, thinking it would be awesome, but as I get closer to crossing the "barrier" and I have more social connections with normies and such, I noticed something, a blackpill that only an incel who is almost ascending experiences.
There is not much waiting for you on the other side, relationship-wise.
Yeah, that's right, just because you have a chance in the game now, doesn't mean you're good at it. Unless you're ascending to the top 20%, another set of different challenges are just around the corner, and your life won't change much in the aspect of relationships or sex. Some of you might be unbelievably pissed of at me, but bear with me, I'll explain it.
So, you want to have casual sex? Too bad, that shit only happens easily for chad. It takes a lot of time, resources and effort for a normie to get some casual sex, and even after all of that hassle, you're only getting a 4/10 that's only fucking you because she's horny, she has nothing on the table at the moment, and she's mildly attracted to you. In that aspect, i think it's far better to pay a Stacy escort, at least she looks far better, knows how to fuck, and the whole experience will be cheaper and easier for you, with an even better outcome.
But you don't want casual sex, maybe you want to date someone, right? Good fucking luck with that. Women's expectations are overblown, you'll have to take her to dates, be proving yourself as worth every goddamn time, meet her family, and so on and so forth. Oh, but love, you say? Again, good fucking luck, love is ephemeral, and the ability to love fades as you get older. Teen love is the most meaningful kind of love, and it's meaning dies of the further you get from your teenage years until you're at your 30s and "Love" translates to "I'm scared of dying alone", and even if you're really in love with a woman, she's been through it already. You're like that HS kid who drank alcohol for the first time, and she's the old alcoholic who doesn't even feel a buzz when she drinks. Honestly, think about how many people you know of that have stable, happy marriages, where neither partner has cheated or is dissatisfied or is just putting on a show, and I bet that you can count them on one of your hands.
If you're still with me, you just might have realized that most of us are chasing ghosts, hoping for an idealistic future that is unlikely to happen. Even if you ascend, that looksmatch girl that loves you for what you are and cares about you will probably never show up. More often than not, reality is disappointing, and you only realize it when it's too late. I still urge everyone to try to ascend, because it greatly improves your quality of life and opportunities, but manage your expectations, if you think you'll have that "white picket fence" dream, you're going to have a hell of a disappointment
TL;DR: Ascension is great on the social aspect, but it's vastly overrated on the relationship aspect. Unless you're chad, it's incredibly hard to get casual sex and it almost never pays off, dating is a pain in the ass, falling in love is even harder, and even if you do it won't have much meaning, marriages are basically designed to fail after a while and that girl you've always dreamed of is likely never showing up. Ascension is still worth it, but do it for the social aspect of it, because the relationship aspect of it is rather disappointing.
Well, I've been away from this forum for a while, only logging in occasionally to read half a dozen posts while I listen to Incel News, so I'm coming back with a controversial post about ascension. Well, I've been working towards ascension for a long time, and now I feel that I am getting pretty close to it, people don't treat me like shit anymore, and they don't get a bad first impression from me, I have a decent social circle and making friends and acquaintances is surprisingly easy now. I've always idealized what was waiting for me "on the other side of the coin", and I honestly thought it would be amazing to have casual sex, relationships and emotional connections like I believed it would happen. I'm not going to lie, the social aspect of ascension is pretty sweet, but I have always looked forward the relationship aspect of it, thinking it would be awesome, but as I get closer to crossing the "barrier" and I have more social connections with normies and such, I noticed something, a blackpill that only an incel who is almost ascending experiences.
There is not much waiting for you on the other side, relationship-wise.
Yeah, that's right, just because you have a chance in the game now, doesn't mean you're good at it. Unless you're ascending to the top 20%, another set of different challenges are just around the corner, and your life won't change much in the aspect of relationships or sex. Some of you might be unbelievably pissed of at me, but bear with me, I'll explain it.
So, you want to have casual sex? Too bad, that shit only happens easily for chad. It takes a lot of time, resources and effort for a normie to get some casual sex, and even after all of that hassle, you're only getting a 4/10 that's only fucking you because she's horny, she has nothing on the table at the moment, and she's mildly attracted to you. In that aspect, i think it's far better to pay a Stacy escort, at least she looks far better, knows how to fuck, and the whole experience will be cheaper and easier for you, with an even better outcome.
But you don't want casual sex, maybe you want to date someone, right? Good fucking luck with that. Women's expectations are overblown, you'll have to take her to dates, be proving yourself as worth every goddamn time, meet her family, and so on and so forth. Oh, but love, you say? Again, good fucking luck, love is ephemeral, and the ability to love fades as you get older. Teen love is the most meaningful kind of love, and it's meaning dies of the further you get from your teenage years until you're at your 30s and "Love" translates to "I'm scared of dying alone", and even if you're really in love with a woman, she's been through it already. You're like that HS kid who drank alcohol for the first time, and she's the old alcoholic who doesn't even feel a buzz when she drinks. Honestly, think about how many people you know of that have stable, happy marriages, where neither partner has cheated or is dissatisfied or is just putting on a show, and I bet that you can count them on one of your hands.
If you're still with me, you just might have realized that most of us are chasing ghosts, hoping for an idealistic future that is unlikely to happen. Even if you ascend, that looksmatch girl that loves you for what you are and cares about you will probably never show up. More often than not, reality is disappointing, and you only realize it when it's too late. I still urge everyone to try to ascend, because it greatly improves your quality of life and opportunities, but manage your expectations, if you think you'll have that "white picket fence" dream, you're going to have a hell of a disappointment
TL;DR: Ascension is great on the social aspect, but it's vastly overrated on the relationship aspect. Unless you're chad, it's incredibly hard to get casual sex and it almost never pays off, dating is a pain in the ass, falling in love is even harder, and even if you do it won't have much meaning, marriages are basically designed to fail after a while and that girl you've always dreamed of is likely never showing up. Ascension is still worth it, but do it for the social aspect of it, because the relationship aspect of it is rather disappointing.
