Celius
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Why does my boyfriend call me cum bag? Is this like some sexual name I don't know about?
Answer (1 of 2): I’m going to guess that name is a variation on “Cum Dumpster”, and the general sentiment seems to be disrespectful. I have also heard that treating your Girlfriend like crap is a good way to make sure she stays with you. It’s counter-intuitive to me, but let’s look at the mindse...
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I’m going to guess that name is a variation on “Cum Dumpster”, and the general sentiment seems to be disrespectful.
I have also heard that treating your Girlfriend like crap is a good way to make sure she stays with you. It’s counter-intuitive to me, but let’s look at the mindset behind it.
#1. If you are a nice to a girl, she senses that the challenge is gone, and may either dump you or demote you to the friend-zone.
#2. If you are a jerk to a girl, she senses a challenge, and either want to “fix” you or follows you around like a puppy hoping that someday you’ll treat her nice.
#3. In the event that you do treat her nicely, see step #1
The “nice guy” mentality is generally seen by women as inauthentic. This idea is “If I act a certain formulaic way, she will give me her body”, so it really isn’t nice at all, but rather an imagined way of getting laid through manipulation.
Notice that abused women very often come crawling or running back to their abusive boyfriends.
From the male side of the argument, given the logic I just outlined, what choice have you left us?